- Set up webcam for the girls - Lube, lube, lube - fingers - then work my way through all my sex toys from smallest (6") to largest (13") Not bad for a guy eh
Dude, if you gotta beg for it, you are either butt-ugly or weak in the mind. Instead of playing mind games, you are better off dumping your present girl and hooking up with an anal whore. If you know what you're doing, she will be begging you to fuck her hard in the ass.
Lots of finger play. Ive never tried it but would in the right moment with lots of rubbing and fingers before hand.
Finger play is always good It's great to warm yourself up if it's been a while I upgrade pretty fast after the fingers
Take some Oil Massage On Your Penis and Your Partner's Ass Hole . never Try fast Do it slowly slowly .Kissing Her Hardly . Enjoys the Madness of SEX
My rule is that too much lube is almost enough !! The silicone lubes that don't dry out are best and very worthwhile if your a beginner. ID Millennium is the Silicone lube that i have tried, though others make it. Enemas are not necessary, but I prefer having no surprises down there. Actually some guys seem to enjoy giving, watching, or helping. If you know you are going to do it beforehand, I recommend you ready yourself alone. Inserting a dildo or a butt plug into yourself to loosen things up a bit at, going in at your own pace, seems to make a huge difference when the time comes. Even if its later that night. I've dilated myself in the afternoon and noticed its much easier that night. For me, stretching my anus alone beforehand lets me relearn my body's response to anal sex. it makes it quicker and easier when you are with your lover. A lot of guys don't want to take five or ten minutes to be fully inserted, and some guys get really turned on when they see it hurts you. Maybe its different for guys doing anal sex, but to me the difficulty of anal sex is getting him inside the first time. Once hes in me its fine. Its like there are two muscles down there, its easy to get your lover in a little ways, you just relax yourself. But then its like you have to convince another set of Muscles to relax, and they can be hard to control. you have to keep telling yourself to relax. Deep breathing helps. Just as you think these muscles are going to let him inside you, they clamp down and start spasming and contracting. If he is already in you, it can hurt a lot. If hes a good lover, he will back out and let you recoup a bit before he starts in again. It will still happen for a while but will get less intense. I often ask him not to move for a few minutes after he gets inside me. If a guy twitches his cock while im trying to talk my body into accepting it, it can send searing pain and have me begging him to get out. After a few minutes though it stops hurting and starts feeling good. In a few minutes after that its awesome. ID Millennium and pre-stretching are the best things i have found.
