We can all remember that first moment you knew you had a different feeling toward that certain girl/woman. I was about 7 or 8 years old...at a skating rink with family/friends...i was skating my happy ass around the rink ..minding my own..then..bam...i fell..lol...and i look up and there she was...i didn't know her...but it was a girl about 12 or 13 and she asked if i needed help up lol..mind you she may have thought i was a boy too..cause i was a huge tomboy...but i remember after that...i made sure i was there EVERY saturday and would always be close as possible to her lol And...it's funny...because i will never date a woman younger than myself...i actually prefer sexy cougars lol.
I have had tons of cougar crushes and my first GF was twenty years older than me! I don't think I have an exact moment to remember, my realization was very gradual.
I started to realize I liked girls when i was around 8 or 9. I remember I loved having sleepovers with my friends so I could watch them undress. That sounds so pervy now that I'm older and I think about it!
My ex..which is the first and only woman i have been with...is quite a few years older than me too...and looks damn good i must say. I have always had cougar crushes too...never would be with anyone younger or my age. I remember highschool i had a crush on a teacher i thought was gay...during class one day she mentioned a bf...broke my heart lol....turns out she moved to California now teaches middle school there...and is now married to a woman....man i wish i would have made a move on her now...maybe we could have had one of those forbidden student/teacher relationships lol. I almost wrote on her facebook page that i had a crush and i'm mad cause she should have married me lol....her wife is very pretty and she looks very happy..guess all that matters.
I almost feel like you should tell her, it would probably flatter her : ) I have had tons of teacher crushes, that is a major fantasy of mine, the whole naughty student/teacher thing ; ) One reason I'm attracted to older women is just their maturity and wisdom, the fact that they are usually very secure with who they are and what they want. Sometimes I wonder if I have "mommy issues" and that adds to the appeal. Thoughts?
Not sure i have mommy issues...i am very close to my mom...so i'll never know why i like cougars lol. I did want to leave her a message on her facebook but i chickened out. I'm thinking i just might now...it is kind of hot...the whole teacher/student thing...i'm gonna work up the nerve to leave a message...i am curious what she would have to say....looking back i think she liked me too damnit lol. She sure gave me lots of attention...even when i would just pass by her class. Ok..so i'm gonna do this..lol..i will keep you posted.
Ok..update...i left her a message on facebook. I am waiting for a response..so if or when she does...i will let you know what she had to say.
Update...i said before i sent an email to her...she responded to say thank you for wishing her well and asked me if i still lived in the same city...i responded tonight so that's kind of cool..lol she now knows i had a crush on her. Hmmm...i'm not sure how long her and her wife have been married...they could be divorced lol. Maybe this could go somewhere...and i can live out my old highschool teacher/student fantasy with her. Though..i am 35 now and ...well she's a hot cougar...it's still hot...and so is she.
Not as exciting and hot as the fantasy lol. I still haven't heard anything else from her and it's been almost 2 weeks now....but it did feel good telling her i had a crush...she was nice about it in her first response...don't think i'm getting a second one though lol. Think this thread is dead now lol..
I knew when I was the tender age of 12 she was standing outside the classroom door pointed her finger towards me and said ?Hey I remember you!? and the whole universe came to a complete standstill which has happened twice in my lifetime. I ended up carrying her books for her when she broke her foot. We ended up sharing a locker. She told everyone that I was her bodyguard . Which just puffed up my little baby butch ego. Now I'm convinced that is why I always fall for blonde women.
My girl crushes started at a young age (I think about as early as first or second grade, so age 6/7). I was always aware that they were same-sex crushes but didn't feel comfortable really thinking about it until high school, when I fell completely head over heels over one of my close friends. I fessed up to her on the night of our graduation, which completely caught her off guard, and we eventually lost contact but remain in neutral terms. Fast-forward to present day in my early twenties, and I am happily with the girl of my dreams.
I really can't remember a time that I didn't notice how pretty other girls were. I didn't start being sexually attracted til I was 14-15.
I was about 10. I was watching the movie "Some Kind of Wonderful" and there is this scene where the tough tomboy best friend kisses her ugly (in my opinion) best friend and I imagined what it would be like to kiss her too. About two years later I had a massive crush on a girl in my class and I think that solidified for me that I like girls.
When I was 12, I made friends with this really strange and interesting girl who looked exactly like a boy. Initially, I was not attracted to her at all. I just wanted to be her friend because I thought she was funny and interesting. About a month into our friendship, I started to wonder why I would get so nervous and flushed around her, and why I had developed such an intense desire to be around her all the time. Eventually, I realized that I had a crush on her. At first of course I was really confused and kept thinking to myself, she's not really a boy, she just looks like one. Don't think about her like that. Then, I spent the night with her, and slept in her room. I got up to go to the bathroom or something, and I saw that she had taken her shirt of probably in her sleep! she always wore big clothes, and so I remember being shocked to see that she was so slim and ....attractive. That was pretty much when I realized that I didn't have a crush on her simply because she looked like a boy, as the part of her that made her a woman had even more appeal...
When I was young(about 4/5 years old) I used to think that girls were a lot prettier than men, but I didn't pay attention to those little voices in my mind. Then when I was like 13 I started to like my best friend, but we were miles apart, so nothing happened. Last year I started to date a guy, but after some months I realized that I didn't like him at all. It sounds bitchy, but he was really the proof that I didn't like boys. So I realized that I was a lesbian and it wasn't just a phase of my life. Now I like a girl in my school...she's so pretty and in the last month we used to spend the break together. But I don't know if she's lesbian too, so I'm afraid to tell her that I like her...we'll see...
When I was in 4 th grade I had this friend that was in 2nd grade, I remember I went to her house one day and she asked me if I wanted to play husband and wife. I was like sure whatever I remember her telling me to undress and put on a apron she did the same, at one point she got the idea to get in bed and start kissing while completely naked. I strangely had no problem with this and went along with it, though I was thinking of it as a game sense I was so young. its very odd how someone 2 years younger than me at the time wanted to do something like that lol. I'm pretty sure shes a hardcore lesbian now. wish I could meet her again. But I didn't realize till a lot later I liked girls, around middle school.
I knew for sure when I was six and my classmate threw me against a wall at school and started to dry hump me.
i was 14 and struggling with boys. I am very attractive but never had had a bf until I was 13 or so. I met Carla, who was 15 at the time and she told me I was cute! I immediately felt like I was accepted and we began a relationship (platonic) for 3 yrs, when it became sexual.
