tie my girlfriend up, suggestions

take pictures and post them on the internet

 

I say enjoy her all you can. She trust you in tieing her, and make sure you tease her and you enjoy her sexually.

 

For me, most of the eroticism is in the anticipation versus the act. I assume you know what she wants and what she'll let you do. It's important she knows you won't go outside those boundaries, otherwise you're getting into sado-masochism. Once she's restrained, tease her. Lick her nipples, brush her pussy, nibble on her toes. I always giggle, but I'm also getting aroused. Whisper to her what you want to do. Remind her how helpless she is. It all helps heighten the sensation. Realistically, while you might think tying her up is all about you, if done properly she'll get the better end of the deal. For you it's all about teasing and heightening the sensation versus just pouncing. For her it's all abut being helpless until you decide to bring her to orgasm. You can really drive her wild - or you can give her a miserable experience and she'll never let you do it again. Be patient and think about what she wants. You'll benefit in the long run.

 

Watch "Clockwork Orange" together!

 

Donna gives good advice.

I've also used blindfolds to heighten the sensations.
Taking away the visual clues from her will heighten her sense of touch, of hearing. I like using toys to tease my GF when she's tied up.
It's never the same twice. Sometimes i let her cum, other times I bring her to the edge of orgasm and stop. I use toys, ice cubes, altoids, hot water, massage oil, etc. anything that is pleasurable for her.

Make sure it is a safe and fun experience so that she wants to do it again!
Also, make sure you have a "safe word" so if she wants you to stop, she can say it and end the session. Sometimes being tied, overpowered, and used is fun, other times it crosses boundaries. Make sure she has that out.

Have fun! And send me some pics. LOL

 

Can't believe it took this long for someone to bring up the Safe Word. Have one.

 

Famous joke.

2 guys fishing. 3rd guy drives up and joins them. One guy says "hey Bill, I thought you couldn't make it? Wasn't your wife gonna do something special for your birthday?"

Bill says "She did. I came home from work, and she was stark naked. She handed me a rope, and whispered 'tie me to the bed and then do whatever you want'. And here I am"

 

i suggest you untie her. the poor girl probably has to piss like a racehorse by now.

 

I would like to tie up my wife and take her past her imaginary cliff. She has changed things up to avoid sensory overload. I would like to see her try getting past it to see what the payoff would be. Won't know until she tries.
Time to give the kids some money to have the house to ourselves.

 

Get her in a romantic setting with mood light, candles (maybe incense) gently remove her clothes stripping her to panties and stockings, and with a couple of gentlemans ties of silky sacarves place around the the wrists with simple knots. Bending her over a high back chair then tie to the legs of the chair - with a similar proceedure with simple knots do the same with her legs spread to be tied to the opposite legs of chair, Oils are good to stimulate the senses until the time when it is feels right to ... engage with physical and emotional passion
- Ah those were the days - I remember them well

 

lol go get drunk with your buddies

 

my favourites:
On my knees - arms bound behind my back
On my back - wrists tied to the headboard, legs pushed up, spread, with ankles also tied.

 

Nice. My tent is going up now.

My point is that she stops me when she becomes overwhelmed with sensations. I want to tie her up so she does not have the abillity to stop me.