Can somebody explain the female Orgasm?

Me and my girlfriend haven't had sex yet but we have done oral and hand stuff. Every time I'm down there, with my hand or mouth, she can hardly control her body. She says it feels amazing but I don't know if shes orgasming. She gets extremely wet and she shakes a lot but I don't know if shes climaxing or not. I mean...she knows when I orgasm. But how can I know when she does?

 

From my experience, shaking means orgasming. Also I think that when women orgasm their bodies tense up.

 

Only she can best tell you if she's orgasming. Shaking doesn't always mean orgasm. She will know for sure when she has one though. It's a tremendous release of sexual energy in a few seconds, you can't miss it. Just keep at it until she tells you to stop

 

The vagina contracts, or clenches...both those words are seriously unsexy but I can't think of a better word...repeatedly during orgasm. If you're down there with your hand you should be able to tell.

The best thing to do is ask her to let you know when she's having an orgasm, something as simple as saying "i'm cumming."

 

girls don't orgasm, silly.

 

This is kinda why I'm asking. She tells me to stop but I don't think shes climaxed. Why would she do that? She gets all shaky and hot and wet and that lasts for a while and then she stops me when she can barely control herself. I don't get it.

 

In my own personal female orgasm experience, the easiest way for a man to participate in my clit-gasm is with Naked Dryhumping.

rub your mushroom on her clit and let her try holding it and changing positions. Its much more intuitive than attempting oral

 

We don't poop, either.

 

i don't think you can feel every girl "clench" up or whatever.

basically the clit fills up with blood and releases all of a sudden upon orgasm. shaking is what leads up to it.

 

read my main thread

 

no. link it or you fail.