birthday sex a given?

One time 4 a friend mines birthday I asked wht she wantd, she replied a 3 some w/ me,her & her husband. Me & him gave her sex 4 her birthday. They gave me sex 4 my birthday also. it was some kinda fun.

 

I just had a b-day last week and yes it was great!

 

yay wally!
happy b-day hon!

 

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hope you have a great b-day when ever it is.

 

i will do anything my bf asks on his bday, and i expect the same from him on my bday

 

Birthdah coming up and we will see what happens i will let u know. i think that sex on ur birthday is the best and its good when ur girl goes all out and dose things she normally wont to make it extra enjoyable. The same gose for blokes going all out for there partners on there birthday

 

its the greatest gift of all!

 

i have sex with my boyfriend anyway. so of course he'd get it on his birthday!!!!!! why not???!!

 

sex and something special, like swallowing, good birthdays!

 

Many people assume that sex with them is in some way "special" to warrant to be "given" as a gift. Keep it, I would like to think sex as a MUTUAL expression of lust/love and attraction, not a one side "I will honor thee with mine own body" type of thing. Any other terms than mutual, I'll find it elsewhere and save her the trouble.

 

B-Day BJ ftw!

 

so it was my birthday on monday and im still waiting for some lovin didnt get a thing

 

We have sex a lot anyway, so special days like birthdays require a bit more special sex. Like, for instance, I first gave my boyfriend (now my husband) oral sex on his birthday. We first had intercourse the day he graduated from college. And, although it was several months before I got the the courage to indulge in extramarital sex (with a very special man), my hubby gave me the okay to go for it on my birthday.

 

Yeah, birthday sex all the way!
Mind you, I've gotta wait until December (girlfriend's birthday is then), before any birthday sex happens.

 

I like your thinking!

 

I lost my virginity on my 18th birthday and until about five years ago sex on every birthday ...

 

At what age does it not become a given?

 

Yes, birthday sex is expected and usually happens.

 

Well...yeah. I didn't get any on my b-day but it would've been nice.

 

Sex isn't always given, lots of times it has to be taken. Sometimes you did something earlier that day that made her want to go for it, she probably wont mention what it was. Sometimes she actually mentions what it was and then when you do it again, she doesn't give it to you because she knows your just doing it for sex. Sometimes she doesn't really want to give it up at all....so you have to struggle with her and take it...Especially if its your birthday at 8:00 pm and you still haven't gotten laid yet. I don't think its a mandatory given, that means your taking it for granted. Where's the fun without the tension?

Don't worry about the whole 'taking it' thing, she's thanked me each and every time. Totally consensual. That's what safe words are for! Either that or she pinches my side...I hate when she does that.