The age old common misunderstanding! Scorpios are just into sex, tho letting others think that does allow for interesting times. If you really want to get past the endless whirl of meandering through meaningless relationships, examine your chart. My fifth is in Aquarius, hence I've always been a sucker for them, but found the lack of shall I say, um, "focus" to be problematic. Ironically the Aquarius I have been with for three years has his rising in Aries which is my seventh house..but the real kicker is his moon, conjunct with mine in the third decant of scorpio. It doesn't hurt to have sextile and trine mars and venus aspects either. It is work as BflyBetty mentioned, but it's worth it. The times of connection ( Real Connection ) are beyond this plane of existence and the sex is fantastic. Most Scorpios need mental and emotional understanding, compatibility in the physical area and deep empathy in the spiritual realms you like to journey in. Each of us has different requirements. For example a Scorpio with heavy Sag is going to be more physical, freedom loving, whereas one with more Libra will be focused on relating and so on. In closing, look at your chart. You are more than your sun sign. Figure out what you need.
Im a picses and i get along with a scorpio pretty well. Hes stubborn, and i'm easy goin, kind of opposites but it works. I calm him down when hes mad, and he brings me back to reality when im in my own little world, day dreaming. I think its a pretty good match.
i dont know i have always been very picky i guess when it comes to girls...but i do think about it... if you know what i mean haha.
Ok so all this time later and I just started wit another Scorpio it's really funny how today I just happened to check up on old stuff and there's the famous thread about Scorpios!! These guys are a real riot. At first they act like you have a long leash on, they are so into you and like it when you hang out with your friends but gradually over time it feels like you are placed on lock down, the leash gets shorter every week and before you know it, they only want you to do out when you're with them! Honestly??? It's like they worry you are going to cheat on them or something. I have the same friends I've had for years and that's who I go out with. If I wanted to be with one of those guys I would be with them now. But I'm not, that means I don't want to. It's like Scorpio doesn't see this big piece of common sense that makes relationships so normal! Anyone else experience this same thing?