selling myself

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Boogabaah, Apr 21, 2011.

  1. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    i knew it.
     
  2. ThePepsiSyndrome

    ThePepsiSyndrome Member

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    I thought this was going to be an auction thread. I am disappoint.:(
     
  3. Boogabaah

    Boogabaah I am not here

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    you can still buy my friendship for cheap.. you just gotta be nice to me.
     
  4. Meliai

    Meliai Members

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    this is probably the best advice. I think 3 out of 4 people are extroverted, so you're in the minority and most people are not going to understand you. Thats okay though, theres nothing wrong with being the quiet person. I think quiet people are very peaceful to be with. I hate hanging out with people that have to talk and make themselves heard all the time.

    so yeah. Just be yourself and people will like you :) And if they don't, screw 'em. They probably have bad taste in people.

    oh i have one more piece of advice to offer. Just truly like people. If you accept people for who they are, they will be more likely to accept you as well.
     
  5. Boogabaah

    Boogabaah I am not here

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    very true.

    this is one reason my boyfriend and me get along so well. he lets me be me and i let him be him. simple.
     
  6. ruski

    ruski Senior Member

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    I don't have any advice.. be yourself? meh.
     
  7. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    that's no good for selling yourself. be yourself comes after they've already bought you.
     
  8. creedlespeek

    creedlespeek Member

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    You're cool as heck! Just practice making conversation with people. Smile; make eye contact. It's just about practice.
     
  9. ruski

    ruski Senior Member

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    true. maybe i should have said hide yourself. don't reveal your true nature until they can't back out. then let it rip.
     
  10. lovelyxmalia

    lovelyxmalia Banana Hammock Lifetime Supporter

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    When meeting someone new, its usually easiest to spark simple conversation...small talk always works in these situations.
     
  11. Charmed262

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    Just be yourself. I'm sure they will like you for it. I know we all do :D
     
  12. Boogabaah

    Boogabaah I am not here

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    've been using some of these ideas and things seem to be going okay. i've been helping build a cob bench for a look co-op today. gonna head back over there for dinner and party this evening. :D i haven't exactly made any friends yet... but it'll happen.
     
  13. ruski

    ruski Senior Member

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    you should smile at them if they are looking at you. that way they might talk to you first and save you the stress of working up to it
     
  14. Boogabaah

    Boogabaah I am not here

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    :D i have been. some people i have smiled at and they smile back. that's good enough for me.
     
  15. warmhandedcanadian

    warmhandedcanadian shit storm chaser

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    I love you girl.

    It is so awesome to feel comfortable in your own skin, that's all I want out of life.

    And I dont want therapy either.
     
  16. Boogabaah

    Boogabaah I am not here

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    :grouphug:

    i had fun yesterday hanging out with a bunch of new folks. :D i'm not going to remember anyone's name... think i'll just call people "friend" .. i love that.

    hello friend

    more stuff to do today... i am sore.
     
  17. Heat

    Heat Smile, it's contagious! :) Lifetime Supporter

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    Good for you!!! :2thumbsup:
     
  18. dark suger

    dark suger Dripping With Sin!

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    lmao so did i
     

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