In many situations, married couples or couples who live together have somewhat different lifestyles. Are any of you nudists while your mate is not a nudist?
This situation is very common. It is more common for the husband to be a naturist and the wife to be a textile though sometimes it is the other way round. As long as your partner does not object to your nudity around the house and may be the garden it is not usually as problem. On beaches (certainly in Europe) there are often couples where one partner chooses nudity though normally both are nude. Of course it is much better for a naturist if their partner is also a naturist. Problems can arise if the non naturist is really hostile or uncomfortable with their partner's tendency to be nude but usually couples are tolerant of each other's preferences.
I think the main problem arises where partners can not differentiate recreational nudity from sexual nudity. Once again, if one partner isn't comfortable, then they don't have to be nude. It's their choice. If you really love that person, their clothing preferences shouldn't make a difference.
Not been in the situation, we are both nudists always have been.....but i'm sure there must be some closet nudists out there that don't want their partner to know that they practice?
thats the way it is for me. li love being nude as much as possible but my wife was brought up in a very repressed home and cannot bring herself to being nude very much at all....
At my local nude beach I often see couples where only one partner is fully naked. Usually it's the man but occasionally it's the woman.
I'm a nudist and my husband is not. He still has trouble accepting that everyone can see his wife naked, which is too bad since I greeted him naked at the door for our first date. I met his parents fully nude and his entire family and all his friends have seen my entire body, sometimes even aroused! His mother even saw my erect clitoris and wet vaginal opening this afternoon and asked if she interrupted anything. I told her that her son french kisses me there sometimes and she dropped it. It's my body and I choose to show it all.
I'm a nudist and my husband is not. He still has trouble accepting that everyone can see his wife naked, which is too bad since I greeted him naked at the door for our first date. I met his parents fully nude and his entire family and all his friends have seen my entire body, sometimes even aroused! His mother even saw my erect clitoris and wet vaginal opening this afternoon and asked if she interrupted anything. I told her that her son french kisses me there sometimes and she dropped it. It's my body and I choose to show it all.
We both spouses are nudist. Before marriage I used to stay nude within room, or move around if alone at home. After marriage, my nudist husband encouraged me to remove cloth always at home. I found it relaxing and exciting. Now we have a group of like minded friends and I find myself comfortable in nude. The purpose of narrating my story is: if one of the nudist (wife or husband) is nudist, other is not, go slowly, friendly and lovingly to convince partner to adopt your life style. At the same time don't put on clothes at home, and encourage her/him to stay so for such time she/he feels comfortable.
Oh your so right. Shocking to me is how often it's not and then we read post from guys trying to convince their reluctant wives to suddenly become a nudist. Then there is another common one, wife won't let the guy be naked at home so he's now a closet nudist. Sure would have been beneficial to discuss before the nuptials.
I do feel for the closet nudist who so much want to break out. Admittedly I became very bias against one person in a partnership telling what the other one will or will not do. My ex as time went on became severely against her or me being naked. I was not even allowed to sleep that way. I started thinking back after the divorce and realized I hadn't seen her naked hardly at all the latter years we were married. Not in our bedroom, I didn't go into the bathroom when she showered, it was a sexless marriage by now so not then. I didn't realize how much she avoided being naked. I could feel her distaste if I changed in front of her in the bedroom so I tried not to do that. I wish I had some encouraging words to tell a closet nudist but I don't.
