Just need some quick advice about dildos and whatnot. I've been with my baby for over a year now and we do sexual things all the time, i'm sure you all know what ya can do with just your bodies eh? heh. But we are finally deciding it's time to take it to a newer level, and this being our first real relationship and first real love, neither of us know a thing about it. Like costs? what is recommended? We would love to use a strap on but from what i gather they can cost a good bit, but i'm not sure? so would it be best to try out just getting a dildo first? She would rather get a dildo and harness at the same time. guh, I just dunno a thing about this. So any advice about it would definitely help. Thanks in advance! Also i'm new here so i have no idea how this place works yet. I apologize if i do somethin wrong~
I've got one of each... Thay are cheap here in my place, don't know yours. I suggest a strap on, then you can hold her at the same time. there's a story abou us buying dildo I'm too shy to.. you know~ So I made my girl to go in to the toys' store, she said she want a dildo to inprove the sex with her boyfriend, the the staff recommended her one witch is able for man putting his penis inside, and another one to put into man's asshole. and, she bought both. (I don't know if u can understand my english..anyway) ah hah..
Just go in the store and ask the person at the counter. The costs are easy to find if you took a few seconds to google anything. Or just wait till you go and then you will find the prices. As for recommendations I would just say however much you want inside you. People prefer different sizes, so giving an objective response is impossible to most of what you are asking... Which may be related to why there is a lack of response.
You might want to start with an average-sized vibrator or dildo to make sure that the sensation is what you and your lover are looking for. My girlfriend actually doesn't like penis-shaped objects as much as she just likes what I can do on my own.
the ramming rabbit or the rampant rabbit or whatever its called from anne summers is quite a reasonable size and its quite cheap and it'll vibrate if you put it on that setting and its got a clit stimulator as well you can buy a harness to go with it but I was with a bi and she said it was great! didn't want it done to myself cause i don't actually like the feel of penis.