I had a dream about a jason like character...murdering people I knew ( in the dream ) like I had a completely different life in the dream...I only had the feeling that I knew them, but I didn't in real life. I'm not used to nightmares & this one scared the shyt out of me I woke up before he got to my house.... My interpretation: fear of my boyfriend. I need to get out
Please explain more about your boyfriend? personally i just think you're being super paranoid but if you're in a shit relationship then get out before it gets worse.
Sometimes I think dreams can be more chaotic than we would like to believe ourselves capable of, and that not every dream must have a specific meaning and correct interpretation. In the event where I see mass destruction and people I know being brutally murdered, I've always just thought of it as my mind trying to purge.
he likes to threaten me about if we ever break up how hes gonna hurt this guy friend, or this girlfriend..nobody is gonna be with me if he can't etc, I don't know if hes bluffing or not as much as I love him I realize I fear him too...and for some reason when I woke up from the dream all I was thinking about was him
If you do break up with him then i suggest not getting in a relationship to he cools off! he sounds a bit mental, get away!
don't know where you are located, but if you are in the states you might want to check this out National Domestic Violence Hotline 24 hour hotline phone: 800.799.SAFE (800.799.7233) www.thehotline.org who they help: victims, survivors, family, parents, friends, offenders, community leaders. A resource to anyone who may have concerns about relationship being unhealthy or abusive, and it does not matter whether they are dating or married, living together or not. other resources for other countries also available here http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/showthread.php?t=408548&f=383 if you can't find a domestic violence resource for where you are, feel free to contact me or just post on this thread you may want to also post on the relationship thread about this hope that you can stay safe!
well, if he has made threats of violence it's probably a good idea to talk to some people who can have some insight into the situation there's no commitment with calling a hotline. you're just asking for their advice and support on handling the situation. even if he never followed through with a threat, the fact that he is making these kind of threats is a pretty clear sign that something is wrong. this is not normal behavior maybe this is something that can be worked out and you can stay together, but maybe this is just a really unhealthy relationship that you should leave as safely as possible. hope that you can do what is best for you
hmmm...I was with someone who used to say those exact words all the time ...how did it end up? Me running down the street at 2 in the morning. Him behind me with a gun. Don't wait till it's too late. It WILL escalate.
