Wow...people are rude.

i've had people invite themselves onto my shit before - i get annoyed but i generally let it roll off my back unless it happens often. like i use it to my advantage at like a party or somethin, socially. like if i smoke people up (willing or not) i use that as a tool to make new conversation with someone else if one i am in is boring me - or if i want a beer, i just ask them for one.

plus i believe in weed karma - it's real. best to just be chill about it and let people deal with whatever they are gonna deal with later on. there's always gonna be more weed and usually the ones you smoke up are gonna be more willing to smoke you up later when you're dry or somethin. it all works out - no one is keepin tabs

 

Yeah, it's a real great feeling when someone can smoke your stuff and you know it's no problem cause next time or the time after that you can smoke of theirs. Feels like true friendship, although actually it should be really normal. You can leech of someone only for so long of course
I like when giving and taking keeps automatically ballanced but in real life it seems there's always one who takes a bit more. Ah well, I have no problem giving subtile 'warnings'

Edit: some people are really rude indeed, others are just really ignorant (but will listen when get pointed out they're regarded as leechers)

 

i would say that my group of friends is kind of above that, but its not totally true. we really do try our best to share with everyone. but sometimes it just isn't the case. i can only think of one guy who would ever call someone to smoke him up. everyone else calls other people... to smoke with. we match if everyone has bud. we share if only one person does. its alot easier to just forget about it, than to wonder who got what.

 

Oh yeah, there's no point in having good smoke if you can't share it. I like to give a gift for the sake of giving, though...not because somebody expects it from me.

people just dropping in...see, that depends. The friend I was talking about in the op drops by my house almost every day without calling. But she'll say before she leaves "See you tomorrow!" or say if she won't be stopping by. Sometimes she'll stay for 10 minutes, sometimes she'll stay for a few hours. But I don't mind that. I told her she's welcome any time.

Now other people...they need to call first. If we don't have an understanding between us that you can drop in whenever, you need to call. I don't want to be taking a crap or screwing my husband, and somebody unexpectedly knocks at the door.

 

People want to leave reality on some level, when they find out that you have a ticket to ride, they board that train.

Just tell her to keep it to herself. Definitely don't tell them she has weed, at least until they have some to level the field.

 

She didn't tell anybody she had weed, the dude who sold it to her did. He's her cousin, and he was smoking up this girl that he wants to bang, and he told her that it was the same stuff that my friend got. Don't know exactly how the conversation went, but whatever.

So the chick that the dealer wanted to bang found out that my friend had weed, and invited herself over the next day.

I was telling her, its these young single girls! I know when I was single I never had to buy my own pot...but I DID ANYWAY. Because that's just polite...and I didn't want to lead guys on. I mean really, it does lead them on.

 

If you want someone to get you high with their stuff, be clear about it, don't play games. And return the favor when you get the chance.

I've had my fill of mooches who act like you owe it to them. People like that are not real friends.

 

Wow. Especially if it's more than one person.