my ex and me were in relationship and when i introduced one of my best friend to her, my ex started neglecting me and started hitting on my best friend. i noticed it and caught her saying wrong stuff about me...lieing to me.i knew my best friend liks me and i liked her too bt never told her coz i was in relationship already.after seeing all tht i told her tht i like her.and wat she feels abt me she told me she loves me too.and at tht tym i kissed her first.wen i asked her was it her first kiss she told me my ex also kissed her bt she told clearly tht she loves me nt her.after that i told my ex tht i feel 4 my best friend.and even told my best friend too tht i was in relation ship she tod she still loves me. now my ex is stll frnd with my best friend now my girl friend.and she keeps telling my girlfriend that i am not a good person...i will leave her for someone else like i did to my ex.another thing me and my girl friend are from india our families wont accept it so we are not out but my girlfriend's mother read my msgs so she has an idea.and we stay at different locations thousand miles away.whenever we meet we have to lie to our parents.now my ex keeps black mailing that she will tell everything to our parents.she keeps asking my girlfriend that she should nt let me touch her...why she was talking to me..what she was talking to me.and most irritating thing is my girlfriend approves it and answers her.and i can feel the effect of her rubbish talks about me on my girlfriend.in my irritation i gave my girlfriend a choice either she or me.she told me she cant leave her for me and neither leave me for her...this fact disturbed me very badly.i am accepting everything.she cant call me wen she is home.or with friends etc but i really dont understand if she cant leave her for me then she should leave me for her.last we three were together and i was not allowed to hold my girlfriends hand bt yeah the whole tym my girlfriend was holding my ex's hand.i dont doubt on my girlfriend intentions bt that is not right.i love my girlfriend so much bt really it being 6-7 months m upset about all these things.she always keeps my ex on higher priority and keeps fighting with me coz of her.i dont know what to do... should i move on or stll keep holding?
It feels like she is holding onto memories. If you feel that you have to compare to an ex, then I would leave and find someone who can appreciate you for who you are. x
