Wow...people are rude.

So I hung out with my good buddy today, and she smoked me out, which was great, because I've either been broke or not able to find anything lately.

She was telling me that yesterday, a couple of her friends called and asked if she wanted to smoke. She said "Hell yeah!" and asked when, and they said whenever she was ready for them to come over. Turns out they had heard from somebody that she had weed...they just invited themselves over and tried to get her to smoke them out.

I don't know about you guys, but if somebody fucking underhandedly invites themselves over and expects you to smoke them out just because you have some, or because you're a generous person, I'd tell them to fuck off.

 

I hear you. Too many people like to take advantage.....pretty much same thing just happened to me.

 

Don't serve the fiends I was told.

 

It's acceptable as long as it goes both ways.

 

I really don't think it is. There's a difference between sharing the love and being taken advantage of.

 

I'll do it if its a good friend who smokes me up...like a give-take thing

 

Don't get me wrong, a lot of people smoke me out. But when I do have some smoke, I always share.

I don't like to hang around people who get smoked out a lot, but never seem to have anything to contribute. Its not the pot, I don't care about that...its the lack of respect that that shows.

 

It's never acceptable to take being treated like a chump. It didn't sound like it was going both ways to me.

 

Man, I used to have a roommate that would smoke my stuff while I was at work. And then she'd eat all the food...and have sex in our room, so I'd have to go hang out in the commons area all the time.

the smoking my pot thing pissed me off more than the other two, though.

 

I can see that happening with 14 year old high school kids but as adults, thats fucking retarded.

 

I agree. I can't believe how immature some people are.

 

In my circle of friends it was always an unspoken rule that if you smoked someone out it was a given they'd get you back. If they had your friend's number she had to have known them otherwise it's a "who the fuck are you" scenario. After 2 or 3 times max without getting anything from them it becomes a "gee don't really have enough guys" situation. If these people are known vultures then she could have went that route.

I don't know. Vampires can only come into your house when invited.

 

Ida told em to fuck off. Harold does that to me sometimes and I have no problerm tellin him to fuck off and he's sposed to be my bff

 

Yeah that is just fucked up and unacceptable. They have obviously never heard of smoker's etiquette!

 

It's Pot 101.

 

Aren't you being a little hypocritical? What if she says the same thing about you to someone else?

 

Not at all. I smoke her out all the time, and I've never acted like I was entitled to her weed.

 

theres a point though, with close friends, that the tally cant be kept (i smoke you up, you smoke me up, etc) if we have some, we bring some. if they have none, and we have extra, we give some for after we leave. if we forget to bring some, i would feel hurt if we were left out, unless they had none in the first place. in my view we share openly in our circle, and i get mine free, so id have to be a real bitch not to share, and thats just not me. the only time we buy it is for a special flavor, or if we intend to resell that amount.

but yeah, i hate when people invite themselves over EVER. i have told close friends to get the hell off my porch before. its an intrusion. if you call, and actually talk to a person (not, no one answered and i stopped by anyway) and say 'are you busy? can i come over?" then you can probably visit, but i need a heads up, ya know? its common etiquette, not just pot etiquette. it is rude to impose upon others. you dont just show up at someones house unannounced at dinnertime. people failed to teach their kids manners, now everyone feels entitled and behaves rudely. i miss when people were generally nice, now i get dirty looks for smiling and making eye contact. like IM the one with the issues, right?

 

You are so right! Well said!

 

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maybe its something they ate?. idk..