Teen relationship and a bad goodbye

I met this fantastic girl on my spring break trip, who I am crazy about. We just clicked, and it took off from there, but it wasn't an official relaionship, as in we weren't declared boyfriend and girlfriend. She is really the closest thing to a girlfriend I have had. I'm 17, so it's kinda pathetic.She is extra special to me because she fell for the real me. So it was all going real smooth until the trip home, where i completely fucked it up. I wanted to try to continue this relationship, even though it would have been long distance. Right before we all went our separate ways, I was going to give her a romantic kiss goodbye, but I froze, due to my irrational fear and low self confidence with women. So she just got a stupid hug goodbye , and now I feel like a complete asshole and pathetic excuse for a person. I want to call her today, the day after, and just apologize and try to see where our relationship stands. Could you guys please help me out? I don't know what to do to try to get this relationship to work out, or just really what to do at all.

 

Long distance relationships are almost impossible as it is, especially if you haven't been together for long.

Call her and keep in touch with her, but I wouldn't push the relationship if I were you

 

I believe you are right about stressing a relationship, it would make it worse between us. Should I still call and apologize? I'd still like to, because she really didn't deserve that.

 

I think you should just talk to her and ask her what she really wants out of this...whatever you guys have. Communication is the most important thing in any relationship. I wouldn't say a long distance relationship is necessarily bad, but you just have to be aware of what being in one might involve. That is for you guys to work out. Whatever you two decide on, I wish you all the best.

 

live for the moment don't live with regrets tell her how u feel n explain urself that way ul no. if you dnt say nethin youl never no and always wonder.

 

Well I'll call her after she gets out of school and apologize, then if all goes well, I'll wait a little while, like a few days, and then send her a text or something, and go from there. I'll post an update after I call. Thanks so much for listening, you guys helped alot. Chocolate and journey can only get you so far haha.

 

''Hi..its me...dont say anything..i have to get this out and its not easy for me...when we were saying goodbye I wanted to kiss you...i wanted to kiss you really badly...it was all i could think about that last day and its all i can think about now....please know it was just me being intimidated by your beauty and being a complete basket case at the thought of feeling our lips touch...if i ever get a chance to do it over I will not mess up..i will kiss you...you can bet on it''

easy peasy bro...

 

you should go back in time and kiss her.

 

Great idea. I knew keeping that catalog with a time machine was a great idea. It also had a fountain of youth, just so you know

 

can i borrow that catalog? i need a time machine so i can go and tell my future self about the fountain of youth.

 

Sorry, but I spilled some water from the fountain of youth on it, and it turned back into a tree.

 

Is it weird that I'm still very attached to her? It's been a week since I last saw her. since I only knew her for a week, it seems like I shouldn't be this attached, but the fact that she was the first person who I had something resembling a relationship with in my life may play a part.

 

nothing weird about it. what is weird is that you are telling us these things and not her.

carpe diem.

 

i'm a little torn on this one, because on the one hand i'm the kind of guy who would tell you that one way or the other there's plenty of fish in the sea and in time you wouldnt even remember her and this girl probably wont make an impact on your life in the long run, but on the OTHER hand...

when i was 14 i was with this girl for about a month, i genuinely liked her but my friends thought i was too "popular" for her or something so eventually i broke it off. but then a year later we got back together and i dated her for over six years! we broke up again and stayed apart for about 2 years and she moved 2 hours away and we got back together again, i moved her back home and we dated for another 6 months. she moved away again but to this day i see her as much as i can, 14 years later! i've seen her twice this year already and despite the fact i've been in a 4 year relationship she is still the only person i would marry. she is engaged though and has genital warts now so maybe i wouldnt lol. either way this girl made a huge impact on my life and who's to say that your girl couldn't do the same?

good luck

 

^the genital warts would be a deal breaker for me

 

how funny i was at the bar with her last weekend and i had forgotten about it until like two hours into the night...i had to start looking for someone else to take home.

 

by sleeping around you will probably end up with genital warts too.

 

Apologize for what?

I think it's my right to simply hug someone if that's what I feel comfortable doing. I also think she could have initiated the kiss herself if that is what she wanted.

That being said, I like the idea of calling her and saying that you wish you could kiss her. Only watch the phone bill; phone sex is pricey. I've run up a few.

 

Long Distance Relationship is a Major Problem in This Time
I have faced this Types of Problem .But i am Still in Connection by Face book .