what do you do?

would you have a relationship with your best friend who is married (to a guy)? what about if you had the relationship and she moves away and you start a friendship with someone and start to develop feelings for this person?

 

1. Only if the guy knows about it.
2. what about it?

 

1) probably not, that's kind of a fucked up thing to do.

2) what if i helped my friend cheat on her husband, then she moved away and i started a new relationship? i'll answer that with a similar question. what if you ran for 6th grade class president, but lost by exactly 4 votes, but during your campaign your mom decided she was going to shave her head, which she proceeded to do with help from mr. jones, the milkman, and then you were on the city bus and you witnessed a fight between a black guy and a guy with a giant beard, and as you were leaving the bus a dog ran by, and then you call a taxi to get back home, but you didn't feel comfortable in the cab because the seatbelt was broken, but you tipped the driver nicely anyway, and then you started a friendship with someone and started to develop feelings for this person?

 

Sounds like a mess.

 

you're gonna split up a marraige just to start fucking someone else entirely anyway?

nah, that's soap opera shit, far too complicated for my life

 

Bad acid trip

 

Naw, I wouldn't.

Peace.

 

I say you become a homosexual because clearly you are ruining the opposite sex

 

on #2 ????

 

No, because her being married should say everything it needs to.

You need to decide if someone is a friend or much more.

 

okay. the man, married to my best friend, knows. the new relationship is just a friendship. nothing has happened other than coming out to her, but she's okay with it. i told the girlfriend about the new friend and we kinda stopped talking until recently, even though i told her nothing went on. i kinda fell back into the relationship.
now, the other friend just called me up and asked when am i going to take her out. and i'm supposed to go see the girlfriend this weekend. what should i do ? because i want to do both. please respond a.s.a.p.

 

1) eh, No
2) huh?

 

i think i should just be best friends with girl #1 because we've been best friends for years. and i do feel that i'm ruining a marriage by involving myself.

 

I wouldn't but thats just me.

 

sorry, but I agree with Oz, here.

 

Your relationships are so fucked up, you can't even explain them so people can understand. lol

No, I wouldn't go back with the old g/f UNLESS you dump the guys wife.

 

i was already the most confused i've ever been in my life. now suddenly you're gay too?

WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT!?!?!?!?!?

 

^^I'm with you.

These new posters looking for advice need to be a little more clear on what exactly is going on.