Older Virgins Weird?

So this is a poll im conducting please be honest. the reason I want to know is i am a 21 year old virgin and everything else ive never touched a girl or anything! do people find this really weird?

 

I don't think 21 is a very old age to be a virgin.

My brother didn't lose his virginity till he was 23 and I have one male and one female friend 21 and 20 that are also virgins.


But I don't think older virgins are any weirder than the rest of us. Some people just didn't get lucky

 

I wouldn't say they are weird. Some people that i've known and one person i still know who is a virgin. They are very quiet, and kind of shy.

 

some of them are weird and some aren't. just like the rest of society.

 

Well I dont find myself wierd, but i have no clue why girls don't like me

 

girls suck...stay away from them.

Society now wants you to think being a 21 year old virgin...its really not that weird. When I first saw this post, I thought you meant like 40 or 50 year old virgin...which would be weird. Wait until it feels right

 

21 is definitely not old. Try 35, and guess what, everyone I've talked so far thinks it's actually cool. I'm serious on that. Well, except for some people on HF that is, LMAO. xD

Although, it also depends on why the person is still a virgin, too. If you generally have a positive outlook on life and sex, it will be easier for you to realize being a virgin doesn't have to mean "unool". But often times, you have to look deep within you to reach that calm state of mind. People focus too much on the negative aspects of others, and what they often also do is see something positive in others and turn it around and make it sound negative. Some people do this when they hear someone is a virgin at a certain age or older. Don't let them influence your way of thinking. Just because you're a virgin doesn't mean you're unsexy, or uncool, or unintelligent, or undesirable, or a prude, or a nerd, or...yeah well, you get the idea, lol. You are you, and everyone is unique and different. You have your own style going on. If you believe you have a good style, then focus on further excelling yourself with that instead of changing it.

The most important thing is to proceed at your own pace. Focus on how instead of when you lose your virginity. The first time sex only happens once. Some may not place much importance in that, but in my opinion how a person is introduced to sex has a rather huge impact on his/her life as a whole. Avoid having sex for the same of losing your virginity. Make sure you enjoy it with a partner you know is worth losing your virginity to. And make sure she enjoys it, too.

In the meantime, stay chill. Don't panic, you're 21, that's the age I met one of my exes(who I became the most physically close to). You have plenty of time ahead of you. Do I have plenty of time ahead of me? Of course I do.

All the best!

 

can't answer this one, 21 is NOT old.

My wife has 75 y o spinster aunt who is a virgin.

Simon

 

you probably treat them like people.

 

I do treat girls with lots of respect, I think its cuz I have a disability, that might scare them away.

 

It is what it is man. Keep on truckin.

 

Well, I don't find it that weird at all--heck, you're a kid--don't worry about what other people think! I'm a virgin and I'm 40--and that doesn't bother me at all! Personally, I'd hang onto it for as long as possible!

 

I know someone who is also a virgin, she's 30, was married, had a child (in vitro)... don't worry about it, you have plenty of time. And it seems like you're pretty eager to do something about it, so I'm sure you won't have your V-card for long.

 

Its not im eager to lose it, its just i want to feel some love of any kind. If the right situation came up i would. I really don't know many girls. I do love one i met her in sophomore year in high school fell in love with her told her my feelings and of course like all the other girls i like she loves me as a friend, but unlike the others i still see her like 5 years later we go out to dinner movies and other stuff all the time. She isn't my girlfriend tho and it breaks my heart, especially when random people see us together and say we are a cute couple.

P.S. she is also my biggest critic of me being a virgin

 

well it's certainly possible to die without ever having experienced sex. is that what you're recommending?

why? isn't sex required to make the marriage official?

you should probably stop hanging out with her. she's most likely holding you back from pursuing women you have a chance with.

 

it's not weird, per se.

i would just wonder why you are virgin. i would assume it's because the person has a problem stepping outside of their comfort zone. that's the part that's a turn-off. if you start being more daring (which is not to be confused with reckless or careless) some pussy might just happen to fall into your hands.

 

This.

Be careful not to put them on a pedistel though... People, not 17th century crystal.

 

21 is a little above average but not "old". I'll say it's usually girls who are concerned about hanging onto it. Guys usually want to get rid of it as soon as they can.

 

what is your disability?

 

Cerebral Palsy.

I think i might have put the pussy on the pedestal a bit.