If you can, please help me and you can read more of my story if you go to the forum "bisexual" but I am female and married and so is my teacher in college and I think MAYBE subtely she has been giving me hints she is interested but I cannot tell. How do you tell if another married woman is interested in you? She has invited me to her house to study twice now.
Can you be more specific about what she does? I mean, everybody has their own way of flirting. There are also the classic ways like catch her looking at you and trying to be near you, does she act different when is just you two?.
ok, so the hints I thought were here flirting was the fact that she is my teacher and she invited me to her house to study for a test I failed and the other students that failed she didnt offer her house she met them at the college. Second, when she did invite me she said, "Well you could come to my house" and looked at me deeply in the eyes. I got to her house and she did sit near me, but we were studying. She asked me 2 times in 1 hour if I had to go to the bathroom or if I was hungry and wanted something to eat. 2 times on both of those which I thought was different. She gently hit me on my leg and started laughing at something when we were studying that I didnt think was funny at all... it was over an answer I got right... She told me 2-3 times that my hair looked cute, that I looked good, etc. I think most of it was the fact she invited me to her house and I thought that was crossing boundaries even though we were both female of student and teacher. Then she asked me again after reviewing again at school she said well...if you want we can go over this again and "meet at the coffe shop...or my house..." so she invited me to her house again... She asked a lot of personal questions about me, told me some personal stuff about her but mainly like she was trying to get my "background" some of these things are really minor and I just may have looked at them too deeply because I thought she had an attraction of some sort towards me or I got a vibe, but I wasnt sure if it was just me or not...we are both married with kids...
Well I would say go with your instincts. But first ask yourself if you want this to happen. I mean you're married with kids... how is this going to effect your life? Is your husband cool with something like that? I think that's the more important thing here. But I would agree with you that it is very odd that she's asking you over to, "Study," and she's talking about non-curricular topics. Maybe you should just ask her out-right. Catch her offguard and then laugh it off if she's appalled haha but if she's not you better figure out where you want it to go.
Just come out an tell her whats on yer mind , if she's a good friend , she will laugh it off and things will stay cool....if shes interested , then she will know to make a move.... Good Luck !