Hi everybody! Well, you can guess that I'm new and came here for some advice... There's always the option of seeing a therapist, but I'd rather ask someone who's been there and knows how it feels like. So,my story goes like this: since I was a kid, I always liked women. But hey, it was not wrong for a little girl to admire older women, the role model thing and so on. And then I grew up, had some boyfriends, but never really loved any of them. Instead I used to fall in love with different girls, but never had the nerve to ask them out. And I still don't have the courage. My friends know that I'm bisexual, and they support me. But my problem is: how do I deal with myself? I can accept the fact that I like girls more than boys, but what can I do with my lack of courage and how can I overcome it? If it matters,I'm 20 years old,female and currently in love with one of my girl friends.I'm really stuck and I need help! Thanks for reading this and I hope you find solutions to all your problems! Hugs!
I remember being in the same position that you are in. I struggled with being bisexual for years. I was scared about what my friends and family would think of me. Finally I trow caution to the wind and told my friends and some family (I have some close minded family.) They took it great. The point is that its never easy to deal with yourself when coming to terms with your sexuality. Trow caution to the wind and just be yourself, ask a girl out think positive. Think to yourself I can do this. Hope this helps good luck!!!!
