Trying anal sex for first time

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  1. namesalltaken8

    namesalltaken8 Member

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    I want to try anal sex for the first time. I want it to be pleasurable the first time so is there any good techniques I should know. Or something that I should do to prepare
     
  2. justanothersoutherngirl

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    just know it'll be kinda gross after. . as in head straight to the bathroom.
    and you'll be walking like a penguin for the next few days, and it makes (to put it blantly) your butt hole itch like crazy. . .

    hope its enjoyable for you. lol
     
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    If he knows how to take it slow and not ram it all the way in it will be quite pleasureable. My ex loved it after I convinced her to try it and actually had a fantastic orgasm using her fingers while I was doing her. Don't tense up. Enjoy....
     
  4. Si69

    Si69 Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    Not at all - it's a nice feeling to have someone cum inside you. Nice to feel them enter you. Best for me is half on my side and then, if his cock is thick but not too long he massages my prostate and at the same time can play with my cock - had some super orgasms like this.

    Enjoy,


    Simon :sunny:
     
  5. MunaJadida

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    Don't use any numbing agents or anal creams or anything - just regular old lube. Pain is your body's way of telling you there's a problem. If you can't feel it, you'll hurt yourself, so don't cover it up. I hear a lot of people say, "You just have to get past the pain and then it feels good." You shouldn't have to get past any pain. If it hurts, there's a problem, usually not enough lube or going too fast. Pull out and try again if it hurts.
     
  6. namesalltaken8

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    Should I try and use a dildo or my fingers first to get used to things before I try anal or is that not really necessary.
     
  7. dark suger

    dark suger Dripping With Sin!

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    Yes you should try to loosen ur ass up but right before hand isn’t enough u need to start like now. To avoid the bathroom thing u should give yourself an enema before hand.
     
  8. MunaJadida

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    You don't have to have an enema first. I've never once used one. The rectum is usually empty anyway except right before you poop. So unless you encounter resistance when you enter, you're fine.
     
  9. Glowstick

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    use the correct lube, ky just feels funny even after being washed off, I love astro gluide

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    Find what works best for you, take it slow, get some massage oils and have a nice relaxing night massaging each other and work up to it.
     
  10. yarapario

    yarapario Village Elder

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    Thats it exactly, he needs to make love to you, to relax and excite you at the same time before he enters you. Good luck & good love
     
  11. Stroker

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    Anal sex is unreal but you must ease into it or its gonna hurt like crazy. Unless you use numbing agents but i wouldn't recommend them. I started of using smaller vibes and worked my way up.
     
  12. IGotMyAssBeatByAGirl

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    I used to play around with dildos, cucumbers, you name it, before I had a real dick penetrate me, so it didn't hurt me the first time.

    I love having my legs/feet pinned back behind my head while I'm getting fucked, it always feels better for me that way.
     
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    It was the same for me. I recommend practicing with something the size of an average cock, which is small in my opinion, then working up to something quite thick. Do this very gradually by practicing a few days a week over a period of months.
     
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    Si69 Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    I love it when entered from behind and his cock massages my prostate - depends on the curve as to the best position for this.

    Simon :sunny:
     
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    I got a question. Iam trying to figure this out cause my guy wants to try this and iam actually scared to do it cause of what i heard. Is it true that the first time it hurts really bad and that you bleed?? Someone please help and let me know ASAP. Thanks.
     
  17. pharmer420

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    If your experiencing pain and bleeding you are not taking your time. You MUST start slowly and relax the sphincter muscles. Start with one finger then two and so on and so forth until you are dilated enough to accept what ever you are trying to insert. If it hurts then stop!!! The process so not being done correctly...
     
  18. Izzy282828

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    ok its gonna hurt at first no matter what the dude says. make sure he works u with his finger or better yet his tongue first. hurst like a bitch at first but once its all the way in it doenst hurt as much. feels freakin great actually.
     
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