Hi, I am mostly a straight guy but have certain male fantasies but just don't know what to do about them. I really wish I could find somebody I could trust enough to go through with them but just don't know where to start. I fantasise about being tied up and flogged into submission before being 'forced' so suck their cock. I know this is a pretty extreme (and specific) fantasy but I really want too find someone to live it out with. Any idea how I could start looking for somebody? Any advice appreciated. Thanks Rob.
I agree, you have a specific scenario that you want to have played out for you. A simple ONS kinda trick may not be the right choice for helping you experience such a fantasy. You want to post your profile on several web portals and state that you are into fantasy play, light S/M, etc. I am sure that a few guys will be more than happy to get in touch... Start by making friends and getting to know and trust them. Only once you are perfectly comfortable with them, you ought to start enacting the parts of your play, or even the whole thing. KD
Hi Thanks for the reply. Do you know of any specific portals I should try? Again, thanks for the advice
I read Nancy Friday book about sexual fantasies and she says that they are normal. Just because you fantasize about something doesn't mean that you actually want to do it in real life.
I totally agree. I think that is why I need to find somebody who I can take is slow with, who will understand that I may not actually be able to cope with the reality of my fantasy, but then at the same time if you can live out your fantasies safely I think it worth a shot.
i have similar fantasies but i imagine being stripped naked and thrown in to a room and fucked repeatedly as the fat pig i am; and fed cock after cock until i glestened in cum. But that's a fantasy and i jack off to it when and if i dream of it.
I have always struggled with that concept. To me, a sexual fantasy is something that SHOULD be realized. I have a need to fulfill pretty much all of my fantasies, and I have yet to be disappointed by the experience.
I have a similar fantasy to be gang banged by 3 or 4 guys that will do me, abuse me, and use me. Muscular, shaved guys with little longer hair and not hairy to even shaved.
I suggest loitering gay clubs/bars and getting to know your brothers... guys are really really horny, im serious pick the friendliest gay guy you can find and get to know your brother. you happy go lucky bastard
I see u liked that but it so true. I went to miami one time and seen this muscular blond headed guy, looked like a bodybuilder but not to big and i thought how great it would to have him drop them g-strings and oil me up along with some of his friends
I went along for years straight as an arrow. I happento go to a adult video shop and sat to watch some porn. Some guy stuck his head in and asked if I wanted company. I quietly nodded my head, with out a word. He starting rubbing my leg and finally unzipped me, all of which felt great. He then sucked off and I cam a gallon in his mouth. That got me to thinking that I wanted to explore more of it, man to man. I got into cruising. I got fucked in the ass several times, while standing. One guy had a large but short dick, which was the best ever. Another guy gave me an enema and fisted me. I sucked him and he fucked me. So, there not bad at all. I say go for it.
I'll tell you one that flogs my mind besides the gangbang thing, its like a hero gay thing like dressing up as batman and robin then pretend being caught by the joker and he puts me as robin (cause i like the tan hose) and batman in some kind of trance or submission thing where we are forced to do each other or the joker bangs one while the other strokes off or something. Iknow that sounds crazy but i remember being turned on while watching the old series and loved watching them in tights.
if i were you i would start to frequent gay bars in a gay community somewhere...they always have a bath house...then you get invited to parties...mmm the parties... cman...i have just recently been mildly aroused by this storm trooper in a pink tutu http://abbracadabbling.blogspot.com/2010/05/pretty-in-pink-stormtrooper-drag.html it got me thinking about how hot cosplay costumes really are
