Looking to lose my virginity!

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Cardude87, Mar 18, 2011.

  1. Cardude87

    Cardude87 Guest

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    I am sick of being a virgin, I am ready and really want to lose my virginity.

    I am a little intimidated and nervous to lose it since i am 23 years old, I guess i am just nervous of not being able to last long and that a girl might find it corny that i am still a virgin.

    Any tips on how i could lose my virginity and girls is it bad that i am still a virgin?
     
  2. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    pay a professional.

    girls will come on here and say it's cute or whatever, but they're lying. it's like when they say they want to date a nice guy with a sense of humor; it's just to make them feel less shallow.
     
  3. screwwho?

    screwwho? Member

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    Hey, I married the guy with the sense of humor...and the looks, and the ability to make me scream with orgasms. ;) Don't knock the humor...looks fade, humor is forever.

    Anyway, you WON'T be able to last that long. You'll be lucky for a minute. Either get it over with with a one night stand and/or hooker if that is the route you want to go, or with someone who really loves you. They won't care how long you last.

    If you go with a relationship, just make sure you are working on pleasing her before during and/or after. Even if you last 2 seconds, if she gets hers, all is good. ;)

    good luck!
     
  4. lovelyxmalia

    lovelyxmalia Banana Hammock Lifetime Supporter

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    don't be so eager to lose your virginity...sex isn't all its cracked up to be
     
  5. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    the guy's 23. if he doesn't do it now he probably never will.
     
  6. lovelyxmalia

    lovelyxmalia Banana Hammock Lifetime Supporter

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    that's when they make a movie about him and he becomes so rich that he forgets to lose his virginity
     
  7. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    but they trick him into signing away the rights so he doesn't make a dime off of it.
     
  8. Meliai

    Meliai Members

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    one of my best friends fell in love with a virgin; it means a lot to her that she's the only girl he's ever been with.

    Thats her though. I personally wouldn't want to be with a virgin. Every girl is different though.

    You can either wait until you meet someone that loves you, or you can find a one night stand or pay a hooker. Your second time isn't going to be much different than your first, however. It generally takes guys years of practice to become good lovers. If you pay a hooker you aren't going to be amazing with the next girl that comes along just because you've had sex once.
     
  9. guerillabedlam

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    Dont generalize, You haven't met me...
     
  10. screwwho?

    screwwho? Member

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    Then you haven't been with the right person. Cause it is soooo worth it!

    I agree with poster above about not being able to last long for a while. You have to have regular sex, and practice restraint. Read up on how to please girls overall, though each girl has individual preferences you will need to take note of, and then you will be good.

    Where is my husband...i need one of those oh so worth it orgasms. ;)
     
  11. lovelyxmalia

    lovelyxmalia Banana Hammock Lifetime Supporter

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    well no I'm just stating that people have all these expectations for when they lose their virginity and then they find out its totally different then what they thought it would be
     
  12. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    mine was pretty much what i had expected. at least as far as the sex itself. i was not planning on the whiskey dick or my roommate walking in on us.
     
  13. Reverand JC

    Reverand JC Willy Fuckin' Wonka

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    Never underestimate the power of $20 and a six pack of Shlitz Malt Liquor.

    Stay Brown,
    Rev J
     
  14. Mr.Writer

    Mr.Writer Senior Member

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    I had sex about 100-150 times before I was able to orgasm from it, so the whole "you wont last long" thing isn't always true either :)
     
  15. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

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    Only way I know how is to insert your penis into a female sex organ, though I think that's debatable.
     
  16. RainbowUnicorn

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    Don't be so eager to lose your virginity, man--it's the one thing you can never get back once it's gone! I'm 40 years old, and I'm proud to be a virgin! Besides, being a virgin isn't so bad--I'd rather have my virginity than some sexually transmitted disease! :)
     
  17. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    baby teeth
    chicken pox
    life
     
  18. jangehei

    jangehei Banned

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    yeah,i agree with u.
     
  19. TheGhost

    TheGhost Auuhhhhmm ...

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    What exactly is there to be proud of? Does this mean not being a virgin anymore is a negative thing?
     
  20. MattB

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    who says its positive or negative? Some people are proud to save themselves, some are proud to get it in. whatever floats your boat
     

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