A little bit of both. I haven't had sex with as many people as a sex worker. But, I do value the sexual experience I do have. And, I also value sexual experience in a partner...
I totally respect that, because you did try it. So many of the posts in this thread seem to come from people who have no real understanding of what casual sex is all about. And that's the real issue here, since no one is going to live long enough to have 100 serious relationships. Some people get into casual sex because they had a serious relationship early in life, realized that they were too young to be in a serious relationship, and did not want to go back to having no sex at all. I understand that, and respect it. Some people get into casual sex because they have a history of sexual and/or emotional abuse, which has given them a warped view of sex. Those people need professional help. Hopefully, someday they can fully recover and have healthy sex lives. For many others, casual sex is something that they decide to try in their late teen years because they want to experiment with everything the world has to offer (including drugs and alcohol) before they decide what they want their adult lives to be like. Some of us enjoy trashy sex and decide to stick with it for a few years, knowing that there is plenty of time for serious relationships in the future. I'm one of those who wanted to rebel against my parents (and grandparents) by doing everything that they considered to be morally wrong, because I thought they were full of shit. In college, I learned that people had been enjoying casual sex for thousands of years, including the highly educated and open-minded ancient Greeks and Egyptians. One of my friends told me that it can be a real head trip to fuck like a wild animal with someone you barely know; giving yourself completely and being fully intimate with someone who is new to you and not interested in the complications of a relationship. I soon found out that I very much agreed with her. I got a huge rush out of breaking all the traditional rules, and the orgasms weren't bad either. Most of the negative stereotypes of sluts come from the actions of idiots, such as not practicing safe sex when you should, or having no realistic birth control plan. This says nothing worth knowing about casual sex because there will always be stupid people in the world who handle everything poorly. And they suffer great consequences for their foolishness. I knew a few of those people in college. Like most people who dabble in casual sex, I got out of it everything that I could, and I moved on. I don't regret anything about those years. I enjoyed it, I learned from it, and I suffered no long-term consequences because I dealt with the risks in an intelligent way. I'm now with a man who doesn't care how many guys I've been with. I don't know exactly how many women he's fucked because I never asked. I only care that he's clean and healthy now, and that he loves me. We do have an arrangement with another couple, but I explained that in an earlier post, so I won't go into it again. All of my college friends have moved on to serious sexual relationships. As far as I know, they are all living normal lives, and many of their current friends don't know about their wild past. You may know somebody like this and not realize it. They won't tell you unless they are absolutely sure you won't judge them.
i'm seeing the London Philharmonic Orchestra preform in your wife's vagina next month great acoustics apparently.
Honestly, I could never see myself having sex with a chick willing to let 10-15 guys run through her in a night.
Because living during a time period means you are more in touch with it than someone who didn't? Not necessarily...
Get real everyone - it all depends on the time span. 100 partners over 20 years, for instance, is only 5 per year average. And say the lady is 50 and lost her virginity at 16? - then an average of around 3 p.a. And I think it is the child-bearing than makes the difference in the acoustics, not the piston-wear; so long as the piston-rings/glans doesn't wear. As a guy - bisexual - I can maybe just lay claim (not laying down in exhaustion!) to 100 partners both male and female but then that's in 42 years since I lost my viginity. Only 2.38 per annum. Maybe we should concentrate on a yearly average to see which lady really needs a re-bore? Simon :sunny:
We have been swinging on and off for 25 years, some parties we go to my wife will have sex with 10 guys, sometimes only 1. Total number of different men she has fucked would be well over 100. I love it
Man, your wife's hole must be lose as a goose, not to mention all the STD's, skin bacteria she has. Should that really be something you should have a "i'm loving it" mentality about like a Micky D's commercial?
While I think 100+ partners is a little disturbing and dangerous... I really don't understand how it would make her twat loose? I have a vagina and it doesn't get looser with each partner. My vagina actually can be fooled into thinking that I'm having sex over and over again with the SAME guy.. HAAAA-- stupid vagina. :willy_nilly:
I've known a number of women who've had at least 100 partners and are still tight enough to trap your cock and not let you go until you cry uncle. There are simple exercises that will build those muscles and keep things tight.
Can that exercises helps to change the image of the vagina..NO..it's very known that can be find out from her look