I've been with my girlfriend for a little over 2 years, she is my first everything but not my only; We have split up before and of course I have ventured out and been with different women. Our relationship used to be absolutely perfect but it seems like anymore there is always problems. I remember a time where we would spend over 2 hours each night on the phone but anymore I rarely ever even talk to her on the phone through the week. We're unable to see each other much due to my job and so forth. It seems like she knows exactly what to say and do to aggravate the living hell out of me. Anymore I find myself thinking about what it would be like with other women again... I don't know why... I love her more than anything, we've been through so much in the past two years... I really wish we could just make things work and I know she feels exactly the same way... is there anything we can do to bring ourselves closer to each other again...?
Try to set a date in the near future, and set it in stone. Make a date. Then do something really special for her, show her how you feel. Maybe through the actions you show, she can understand what she means to you. If things go extra well, just say in a sweet, gentle tone "Babe, you have such a huge impact on me and it kills me when we fight, so lets use this date as a springboard for better communication, etc." Or something to that effect. But set a date. Be like, "are you free March 25th? Okay, good, free your calender for that day!" And maybe do some things together that maybe you also did when you first met.
and to what avail? flat rejection? argument? *cough* on to the next *cough* i know it hard to hear, but im one to get very caught up with relationships. i love the feeling of being wanted, having a girlfriend, and a significant relationship over random flings with people. Sometimes, some relationships and people just arent meant to be. And you will go through so much bullshit and emotional suffering to try and hold on to that one special girl or guy and in the end it just wasnt meant to be. But if you dont think you guys are there yet and your relationship is still salvageable, then by all mens try and fix it. Maybe just sit down and have a serious, but calm, discussion? Smoke some bud and talk about your issues?
you've hit the comfort level. This will make or break your relationship. You've both gotta sit down and decide which path you want to choose
time. I mean you have only been together 2 years. the spark comes and goes in a relationship. the love and comfort should always be there.
yeah man... She was my everything, I did everything for her and gave her everything she ever wanted. She was my first everything. I feel so lost. :|
