Ok so I might get kicked off this site for this.. but it might be worth it since this has being bugging me for two days now... So I went over to my friends house yesterday and I wanted to light up so we lit up and I was stoned while he was just plain stupid, and when he's stupid he's truthful unlike his lying self. We were basically talking about random things until we roamed into stuff about sex. Now I never talk to him about sex because he's a jackass because I've never had sex. Then we started talking about our other friend who was also the best dealer in town. We started to talk about his chick who is a slut and fucks him and others while she acts like his boyfriend.(last year she did 70, she counted) Now my 1st friend who I got stoned with starts telling me that they were asking her to do me on my 15th. She said she would, but she's going to college in China so she couldn't (That's not a lie either, to get out of it she's good at speaking Chinese) Now I have a feeling, although he didn't say, that he's going to get someone else in place of that. so since yesterday, after the high, I have felt like shit because 1. I came real close and 2. If they are going to get someone else what should I do? I know all the components of sex, but I don't know how to put them together please don't say anything stupid...please..just help
you should do him a favor and have sex. i'm sure he wishes he was a normal intelligent person, but you're holding him back. seriously, i'm not quite sure what you're asking. your friend is going to get a slut with no self esteem to take your virginity and you don't know if you should go through with it? well, that's entirely up to you. depends on how important losing your virginity is and how attracted you are to the slut. if you're just worried about not knowing what you're doing, the whole premise behind her having sex with you is to take your virginity. i don't think she's expecting you to be peter north or anything.
1. decide if you really want to screw someone 'pimped', or if you'd prefer to find your own sex partners. 2. if you don't care, buy a friggin' good condom, and bang her brains out...and don't let any of those other assholes leave their cell phones in the room with the camera on (or any other chance for 'video' to go viral at your school or whereever). 3. you might ask whoever this is you're supposed to screw if they have an std, but they may lie anyway, so back to the condom. consumer reports did a test in february of 1988-you might check to see if your library or online has an update for tested condoms. major brands are likely safe, but....it's best in a case like this to have the best, unless you like the term 'daddy'. i don't know what in hell else to tell you...the first thing you gotta decide is 'do i want this? what are the consequences if i do it?'. the consequences if you don't is they'll all give you shit. tell them to go fuck themselves; it aint their life. it's yours, and you have to decide what you want...or someone else will be glad to fuck you up for their own entertainment.
I'm going to delete this post tomorrow now that i re-read it. The thing is I was bummed out over that fact that in 9 months from now I could be having fun but most likely with my shit luck.. I'm not going to be having ANY fun and i was making my self crazy over this just to answer your question,I'mnmyundearwear she is really hot but shes older..and slut.. and one of my friends so i don't want to look like a dumbass in for my first time and reb,they don't have stds so im good
I'm less concerned about you sleeping with a slut than I am about you hanging out with liars. ("when he's stupid he's truthful unlike his lying self"). People tend to hang around people with similar morality. The quality of a person is determined more by their honesty than by their promiscuity. If you are going to have sex with a slut, it would be better if she was an honest slut, rather than the plaything of a liar.
there's no hurry to lose your viginity dude, you've got plenty of time - do it with someone you like and of your own choosing. Not just for the sake of your contemporaries. And use a condom - stay wise, don't lose control of your life at 15! Simon :sunny:
I guess the only thing I have to say about this is it really sucks to get your hopes up and then to have them crash and burn let alone months in advance... because I GUARANTEE on my 15th I'm gong to sit around and think that i would have been able to get some, because i doubt he would be nice enough to get someone else. ...and the whole thing i said about "going through this" is stupid i was just really bummed out... this guy I'm talking about, who said this to me has ruined things like this before but he can be nice and he lights me up so i don't say much to him.
I guess this one line is the whole problem that I have with this whole scenario. What does it say about you that you are hanging out with someone who ruins stuff like this is, an asshole to you when you're not stoned but is nice when he is, and you only seem to hang out with him because he gets you stoned and promises to get you laid? Granted you are 14 years old and generally egocentric due to lack of life experience and general psychological development. This is what you should be more concerned about than getting a piece of ass. Stay Brown, Rev J
Granted im 14, but I'm not a dumbass. Out of a week I might see him once maybe and I usually won't talk to him unless he says something with "free" and "pot" in the same sentance and is talking to me. and on this forum it looks like I'm talking a lot about this but it's really not getting to me ,just some pot paranoia...
