Hey! Driven by curiosity, I am running this poll to understand what makes good male lover. If enough people answer it, I may do some statistic analysis and post the results here so we can discuss them. In the first part (I) just answer with your personal information. In the second part (II) rate between 0 and 5. 0 if undesirable, 1 if unimportant, 5 if of extreme importance I Gender: Age: Sexual orientation: Number of lovers (consider any kind of sexual act): II General looks: Muscular body: Body size: Tan: Penis length: Penis girth: Penis shape: Oral sex skill: Fingering skill: Thrusting skill: Dirty talk skill: Able to last long: Cumshot size: Dominant (sexual) attitude: Submissive (sexual) attitude: Caring (sexual) attitude: Open minded:
Gender: Female Age: 30s Sexual orientation: straight Number of lovers (consider any kind of sexual act): 1 II General looks: 3 Muscular body: 3 Body size: 4 Tan: 0 Penis length: 0 Penis girth: 2 Penis shape: 2 Oral sex skill: 4 Fingering skill: 3 Thrusting skill: 4 Dirty talk skill: 3 Able to last long: 4 Cumshot size: 0 Dominant (sexual) attitude: 4 Submissive (sexual) attitude: 4 Caring (sexual) attitude: 5 Open minded: 5 x
I Gender: M Age: 59 Sexual orientation: Bi Number of lovers (consider any kind of sexual act): 80 II General looks: 4 Muscular body: 2 Body size: 4 Tan: 3 Penis length: 3 Penis girth: 2 Penis shape: 3 Oral sex skill: 4 Fingering skill: 4 Thrusting skill: 4 Dirty talk skill: 2 Able to last long: 4 Cumshot size: 2 Dominant (sexual) attitude: 3 Submissive (sexual) attitude:3 Caring (sexual) attitude: 4 Open minded: 5 Post the end results for us to see L8a :sunny: Simon
I tried to fill this out but I don't think it can be defined within the categories you gave. for instance, looks aren't as important as attraction and primal attraction doesn't neccessarily have to do with looks but more so with the way a guy carries himself, at least for me. Fingering and thrusting skills don't get you very far if you aren't listening to what a woman really wants because every girl is different. I think what makes a good lover is his ability to tune into the female body and be attentive.
I Gender: F Age: 27 Sexual orientation: straight Number of lovers (consider any kind of sexual act): 2 II General looks: 3 Muscular body: 2 Body size: 3 Tan: 0 Penis length: 1 Penis girth: 2 Penis shape: 2 Oral sex skill:2 Fingering skill: 2 Thrusting skill: 4 Dirty talk skill: 3 Able to last long:2 Cumshot size: 0 Dominant (sexual) attitude:3 Submissive (sexual) attitude: 2 Caring (sexual) attitude: 5 Open minded:4 One of the most important things is how much he cares about what I'M feeling. When he makes me feel wanted, and he makes me feel like he wants to please ME, it makes me want to worship him. I'm basically his slave as long as he makes me feel like a goddess. Catch 22, huh? Oh well... it's how it works for me!
Thank you very much for replying. I hope more people keep joining in the thread. Meliai, I understand your critics. Something has abstract and subjective as this is always hard to define in few parameters. Nevertheless I still think It might answer some interesting questions such as "do people of different gender, age and SO value different things?”, “What do people perceive as a good lover?” Etc. But this can only happen if enough people answer so…COME ON PEOPLE, spare a few minutes for the sake of sex and knowledge. Again to Meliai, how would you run a poll on this subject? I would also find it very interesting if you could give us your answer in text I wish you all love, sex and drugs Nero
I completely agree with Meliai, even though I did complete the survey, for what it was worth. Men have to listen to what a woman wants. If you're just interested in a one night stand or booty call, then this does not apply. However, if you are interested in a lasting relationship with a woman, listening to what pleases her is key. Ask her questions about what she likes. Let her know that you are enjoying it, and thank her often.
