this question is for the femmes out there. Do you expect your butch to STRAP it on? Is this a must in a butch/femme relationship. Your thoughts...??
Nope. My butch gf can use one if she wants to. Its her decision. Personally I don't need it. She's perfect and more than gets the job done without a strap on.
I come across as butch, and it's really something that should be discussed between you and your partner. Some girls like it, some can take it or leave it, honestly i think it's hot when a femme girl straps it on. sometimes you gotta switch it up.
Nah, not a must at all. My girl and I can go either way with that, and even though she's the more 'butch' of the two of us, she enjoys it sometimes when I strap up. It's not a butch/femme thing, it's a sex thing. Just do whatever feels right and you can't go wrong.
I like a combination of the two (that reminded me of a Janis Joplin song). It really depends on what mood I'm in and how freaky I'm feeling.
I think strpons are hot. I really like to be the one packing though. I'm a giver in the bedroom so I love to make my girl feel good.
Read my post in favorite positions. It says it all. My girlfriend uses a strap on every time we have sex. Its not the only way we have sex every time we have sex, but it makes an appearance every time we have sex. She likes it that way and often gets off that way as do I, and since I'm lucky enough to be able to get off multiple times in our escapades, it really doesn't matter to me how we start, middle or finish. After 16 years together we know what we like and stereotypes sometimes just feel damn good! Lol!