You say "get by" like getting eaten out and fingered is somehow inferior to penatrative sex. It's all great, just depends what I'm in the mood for. Sometimes I like to drink shots of whiskey and other times I like to sip on cocktails through the night.. I'm gonna have a good time either way, it's just different ways of getting there. Most times, I like to take shots AND drink cocktails...
Sweet, my fault, I should have elaborated. If you meet a nice guy who suits you in all respects, but has a small cock or suffers from premature ejaculation or cannot get it hard enough, but makes up for it by other means such as cunnilingus or fingering, would this be good enough for you ? Or do you need to have sexual intercourse (penetration until you orgasm ) for you to continue the relationship ?
Gotcha... ermm... tough one. If I really cared for him and wanted to be with him I suppose we would find other ways to make due by use of toys, etc. If I was confined to a life of no good cock ever again, it would definitely have to be made up for in other areas (good emotional connection, good sense of humor, some cash wouldn't hurt ). It would be like eating only 1 or 2 of my favorite foods for the rest of my life - eventually I'd get tired of it, but it wouldn't kill me. I thank my lucky stars I don't have this problem
Gah...I love being fucked..If I really loved him I guess I would be okay with it, as long as he's really good at it
So true! It's all good and it's great to mix it up! And yes, you work with someone you care about. I think as long as the parties are satisfied emotionally and/or physically and are happy, that's all that counts.
i must be a lot different then most girls the only way i can have a great orgasm is being "played with" me and my boyfriend will lay facing each other and i will hold his penis and rub it along my clit and rub on him and it will get me off and as i'm getting off he will hurry up and stick it in and then it just makes the orgasm even better. during masturbation i will play with my clit and can get myself off just as well as penetration does.
I've made my current lady cum just by rubbing the head of my cock against her lips and clit...Shit was HOT.
find out if the chick is a clitoral or vaginal orgasmer. if she's like 75% of women, shes a clitoral orgasmer and will do fine with head and fingering. but if she's a vaginal orgasmer like me, she's gonna need to be fucked
i kind of belive women when they say theres such a thing as "too big" because every time i try to insert more than 2 fingers they go "ow too much" and thats just fingers! although there are exceptions of couse,my friend told me she fisted this girl(first one she ever met so its rare)