Have a boyfriend...but masturbate to women?!

Thats all perfectly healthy. The woman body is beautilful it really is so unique and curvy, guys bodies are nice too but something about a women's body is extremely sexy. I havent masturbated to pictures but I have done things with other girls...that doesnt mean you are a lesbian or even bi, just that you appreciate the female body. I find both males and females attractive in their own ways and I'm not afraid to do things with either, its interesting and fun to experiment with that type of thing.

 

simple question:

How do your boyfriends deal with it ?

 

Well my ex never, ever mentioned anything like this, but really had she, or any other girl, I mean it wouldn't surprise me really, cause like like innocentpoison said, the female body is beautiful and sexy. I mean as long as she still finds you sexually attractive, I don't think it really matters who she masturbates to.

 

well, honestly, it hurts like hell

even though i've been said that i'm the only one and stuff, i still feel like the biggest sexual loser of all times...

maybe (nearly)everybody IS thinking about some other girls from time to time.. then i'm a psychopath, coz all i want from my girlfriend is her to be 100% faithful and devoted (don't get me wrong.. my baby is all that.. i just speak in generall)

but I'm afraid something like that isn't possible

 

That can never happen, you can't controll what goes on in their head, but as long as you're the only person they're seeing in reality, well then that's the best to hope for.

 

yeah, i know that, but the thing is: I don't (and can't) think of anybody else (no matter what sex)... it's natural for me... i just couldn't do it.. if i think about anybody else, my wiener (have i already mentioned, that I'm from Wien ?) would go flabby and i wouldn't be horny anymore... so i thought it's the same with everybody else... but it's not

 

okay, you and I are like, twins or something... except I think I'm gayer because I will not have sex with my boyfriend, and I'm not attracted to him and he doesnt turn me on.

 

Well no, in a way I'm like that, I mean I only want to be with the 1 I love, but I can find other girls just as hot or even more so, but I just really have no desire to be with them in any sexual way in real life.

(Wien is Vienna in English right?)

 

yep.. but in vienna the wieners are called frankfurters (like the german city frankfurt..) funny, right ?

 

Frankfurters are nothing but a bunch of wieners anyways, I've heard nothing good about them.

 

you know that there's a kind of pastry we call "Wienerbread" in Norway?

 

it's a safe fantasy it won't lead to cheating ect. I am sure your guy is happier with you fantasizing about women than other men.

 

well in America we call hot dogs wieners, so I guess every country has a food with the name in it.

 

yeah, we call a type of hot dogs wieners here too.

 

really? it's amazing how a simple word can unite 3 languages.

 

actually, funnily enough, it's the pastry that's called "Danish" in english that's called "wienerbread" in norwegian.
hahahha
that's hilarious

 

Let's face it: Men are ugly! Though some DO have man-boobs.

 

that is of course a man's point of view..lol
I think men are beautiful. Not all, but most are pretty in their own special little way.

 

Well, up until about a month or two ago I was just as confused as you are. I have a boyfriend who is wonderful but I think about girls probably more than I think about guys. After having a looong converstaion with my boyfriend I was finally able to admit to myself, and to him, that I was bisexual and I can not tell you how free that made me feel. He took it kind of hard but like MrRee said, you can never worry about your sexuality because it isnt something that can be controlled. Whatever you feel or whatever you have to do to enjoy yourself, is fine. And when you finally do decide how exactly you feel, that will be the best day of your life and you will be more free than you ever have been.

 

Well I dont blame you for liking to look/ masturbate to pix of nude females. I mean the female body is a beautiful thing. I have a bunch of pix of nude females, i dont masturbate to them, they are like peices of art to me. Hee are a few things that I can think of................

1) you might be bisexual and not know it yet.
2) you could be straight but you get off by seeing nude females.

everyone has their own "thing" to get turned on and getting off. maybe this is yours. Your a straight female who enjoys looking at other females. its no big deal. hope i have helped in some way