How long do you spend of foreplay before penetration ? Part 2

At least 3-4 orgasms for her. I get more pleasure out of making my partner cum than anything else. Sometimes 20-30 minutes, some times 2 hours or more. It all depends.
I like getting my wife to the point where I am maintaining her at the plateua phase of arousal for as long as posible. If I work it right and exercise proper timing and technique, I can get her to where she is just having one non-stop orgasm that just ebbs and flows in intensity. Then when we do get to the penatration part, she will often have many powerful orgasms piled one on top of the other. She has passed out once from the intesity of orgasm.
But the foreplay really starts every morning when you wake up. It's in how you treat and respect your partner that can lead up to great sex.

 

Days.

 

more than five hours. In my book, foreplay is, simply put- about whether she's drunk enough to stupidly have sex with me.

 

About four hours of begging for me.

Peace Out,
Rev J

 

Oh yeah nothing better than just doing it somewhere different or doing something really crazy and wild.

 

I'd say between 20 minutes and an hour.

I don't last very long during the penetration, and try to make up for it beforehand =)

 

I think the trick for guys is not to spend a lot of time with penetration.

Having said that its very hard not to want to penetrate.

If you can hold off for a long time, thats very difficult.

The reward is worth it.

 

Yeah, so far that's been my trick, and at one point I was getting a lot better at lasting. Then she needed surgery and all my good work came undone when we were able again.

I've decided to try kegel excercises though. I might make a thread if they do anything.

 

I once read an article that claimed the reason many men don't last as long as they'd like is because many men when masturbating (say that fast 5 times) don't try and "teach" themselves to last longer. They usually just wank until they're done and that's that. The author claimed that when masturbating men could try wanking themselves to the brink, then stopping and starting up after they've calmed down. Apparently doing this frequently can be beneficial to helping them last longer when with a partner.

 

For me if I'm high on weed or psychedelics I can last a veeerrrry long time
I think that is the main reason the wife doesn't bitch too much about my smoking herb
Straight and I'm right there with ya Duck
Like that old commercial with the owl eating the tootsie pop;
One-Two-Three, Crunch!

 

I thought one of the side affects of smoking was decreased sex drive.

And also a decrease in sperm count.

 

that is a side effect of smoking tobacco because nicotine causes constriction of blood vessels, marijuana doesn't, at least as far as I know that is the case.

I have 6 kids already, so If there are less swimmers, I'm OK with that.

 

I've also read that Bass Players have higher sperm counts due to all of the low frequency vibrations. I'm a pot smoking bass player so I guess that evens things out.

Peace Out,
Rev J

 

My g/f likes to lie back and read erotica for long periods while i caress and tongue her to oragsm. I find this so rewarding

 

he he thats great !!!

 

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My wife doesn't need anymore than 5 minutes-if she's not ready by then, she's not gonna be.

I was with a girl for a long time that needed at least a half hour to get going, and my ex-wife needed about 5 seconds-it varies enormously from girl to girl.

I think the notion that women in general need a whole lot of foreplay to really get excited and then to orgasm is a bunch of bunk. You simply have to get to know your girl and learn what turns her on and how long it will take her to be ready for action. That's the key. Women are individuals-they're all different.

 

that is like asking "how long do you eat before you are full?"
there is the mood to consider, how long it has been since last time. How easily does she get to the point of being ready. How long do YOU need on a particular night. What kind of foreplay are you doing?

to ask "how long" is... impossible

 

Exactly. Everybody's different. And every day and circumstance is different, too.

I've read a lot of what the OP has written, and basically his take on things is like this: It's very hard for women to orgasm, they need a whole lot of foreplay to get excited, and most men are just interested in their own pleasure, and don't want to spend time to be romantic and gentle to get their girls going.

In other words, everybody's alike.

This point of view usually comes from reading a lot of feminist literature that makes these assertions and also from not having much experience with women.

I've been with girls that get excited easily on one day, and the next it's difficult for them to. I've never been with a girl that always takes a lot of foreplay to get going. Even my gf that usually required quite a bit of foreplay to be ready, sometimes she'd wake up in the dead middle of the night and just say 'fuck me-now' (I did, after I sufficiently woke up ). We're all individuals. It doesn't serve any good purpose to stereotype people.

 

How much time do you spend on penetration before foreplay?