Girls, try and answer this for me...When i text a girl that i thinks pretty or that i enjoy talking to, and she doesnt text back for a while, im gonna admit it kills me!! It makes me wonder every possible reason why she isnt texting back and it makes me wanna text her again...My question is, is it the same for women? For instance, if i told a girl to text me some night (i think she reallllly enjoys talking to me) should i be very responsive to her texts? or wait a while? ;-) Any tips for texting girls would be awesome
My response to this...you have to CHILL!!!! Don't be so eager to constantly talk to girls...that scares them off. Occupy yourself with other things and shoot em a text once in a while.
no...it is not the same for girls...they hold all the power...they love to watch us squirm...get used to it
If you got bitches fucking with your emotions, grow some balls and show them it's not ok. Either they will move on, and you can find someone worthwhile, or they will realize what's up and stop fucking around with you. If you reward a behavior, that's called positive reinforcement. They will do it again.
If I don't get a response right away I send more texts. The longer I wait the closer together I send the next few. The last few I send are always along the lines of "If you don't text me back I'll assume you don't want to talk to me." I can't figure out why they never respond.
I was thinking more along the lines of "stop sucking up to girls." But, on second thought, this is probably more accurate:
This usually happens to me when I'm texting anyone because I want a conversation, but I don't want to call for some reason. Conversation demands more prompt back-and-forth dealing. Texting is not that in most cases. So just don't consider texting a conversation and you should get less ancy about it.