Why is it only the ugly girls that are into me?

This thread is wild! haha

So, it's true, less attractive girls will hit on just about anyone, and it sorta sucks, because no guy (at least myself) likes to be hit on.

It's natural for guys (we are animal, remember?) to chase their mates. I enjoy going to bars while I’m single and finding the girl that i'm most attracted to (never the most beautiful, unless she is outdoorsy, which is rare) and trying to start a good conversation, which sometimes works, sometimes doesn't if she's busy or has a bf, or is just simply not into me.

I don't have a 'pickup' line that I use, I just try and be casual. You ever try that one instead of always going for the 'hotties'?

And calling yourself 'cool' is not cool. Chill is a better word, but don't ever call yourself chill if you have been in a fight in the last 5 years, have ever done meth, or are a total loser at life in general.

That’s all,
Peace

 

You seem to have the mentality of a 12 year old. That may be your problem.

 

The fact that you think I have the mentality of a 12 year old shows you're quite stupid. Get a reality check buddy.

 

I'm not that good looking and my wife is hot, so you must be some sort of dork

 

Speak for yourself! I like it when women hit up on me. Especially when they use a riding crop! :love:

 

I have experiance the same thing as the OP. I never really got with a girl that I wasn't attracted to but like some one said you should score with them at least.

I say next time techno just fack her. Its not like you have to marry her and see her forever.

 

That 'hot chick' you just tried to hit on is making a post here right now asking why only dorky guys like them. Not that they want a 10/10 guy but shit, why cant they find a guy who's a little more muscular and packing an extra inch or two than you...

 

He, he, this thread is very humourous!

OP, you do seem very pre-teen in your descriptions of women, and then your signature just puts you over the top into cluelessness, and makes us scratch our heads. Maybe you should read it and put it to use in looking at women, but I feel it's put there to boost your own self esteem. I have a comment about your new relationship, but I will keep it to myself, so as not to sound really nasty.

Jo King and Neone...great posts! you made me smile

 

Don't think I am that rude if I tell you that it's cat food; not even fit for a horse!

 

OMG THIS.

Aaaaand:
Some girls are just difficult, and remember that chicks are SOO different from us it's insane. I was talking the other day with 2 coworkers, and they explained how they met their BFs, the first time they met them they thought "what a JERK" ,and after a while BOOM, a couple was born. I've learned that chicks don't really care about looks, it's all about the attitude, your individuality and uniqueness.
What I'm trying to say is, aim for the girls you like, have BALLS, patience, and you'll land something.
On the other hand there are many cases of ppl that start liking someone AFTER they've met them. So don't discard the "ugly ones" just yet, hang out with them, maybe they make you laugh, maybe they make you feel good.

Good luck.

 

theres nothin' cool about someone that calls people ugly.

 

i really don't understand why absolutely everyone is talking crap about the op.
what the hell is wrong with wanting a good looking girlfriend?? and he just said that he's pretty cool and decent looking. not fantastic, the best, and the hottest male on earth... he just didn't understand why the good looking girls were not interested in him.
he's perfectly justified to look for a physically attractive gf. if she's not attractive to him, what? just have a relationship with someone he's not attracted to?
grow up ppl...

 

I dont think anyone cares anymore this shit is two years old

 

ok , but i can call them fat . right?

 

I know this is old, hackneyed, and cliched, but I find the inner person most important, in choosing a mate. Not to say esthetics aren't important, they are, but in what order and to what degree is subjective. What you call ugly I may find attractive, but let us say were talking about what society deems as attractive. I have been with woman from each end of this attractiveness spectrum, from ones to tens, and still I have found those with great personalities the most attractive regard less of their number. I have known a three for whom a I had a tremendous attraction and I have known a couple of nines and tens who once I got to know them I found repulsive.

You know, if a person is happy with them-self it shines through and makes them more beautiful than their body alone could ever do.

 

I totally agree that the inner person is way more important. but sometimes, you just don't find someone attractive, then you stay friends... but obviously you won't fall for beautiful ppl if their personality is crap. i just don't see anything wrong with wanting a good looking gf..
i know this is old, but it caught my attention...

 

Op didn't post a pic? Wtf?

 

ITT the most obnoxious group of people I've seen in the same space for a long time, including the OP. This is a hippie forum, really? Where are christ are the hippies?

 

I take it you were just trying to tell us that this is what other people think about you & you just didn't articulate it the way you could have. So maybe it's your ego man.. You can start by asking yourself who you are to decide who's ugly in this world. <- THAT, is ugly.

peace, love, namaste
TP

 

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