The proper perspective for masturbation requires defection from the collective conscience. I find that myself pretending that I'm actually having sex when I masturbate.
i don't do it all the time but i think its hot having someone watch me masturbate. i love masturbating on cam Ive been doing it for awhile now. its allways fun no matter whos watching its just exciting to be naked and free.
i really enjoy it. i often get naked before my girlfriend and like it if she keeps some clothes on. i definitely get the thrill of cfnm. i think the inequality of it is quite a turn on and handing yourself over for a woman's pleasure. my girlfriend does like the sight of me masturbating and will sometimes suggest it when she can hang back on taking matters into her own hands. the problem is, i find it so erotic to share such a personal thing with her that i normally don't last long! i'd be quite happy for other women to watch me naked whilst masturbating (or just hard) but that sorta contact ain't easy to come by - suggestions are welcome!
I never masturbated-masturbated in front of someone if touching yourself during sex doesnt count.. but it was a great turn on once when during sex in a dark room a guy turned on a little lamp, turned it towards my pussy (I was in a doggy position and he was behind me) and ordered me to touch myself... mix of humiliation, exposure and feeling the warmth of that light at my genitals.. mm
I love to masturbate in front of my partner, and he loves watching me. Usually I will use my bullet vibrator and my partner encourages me to have a fantasy. Once I've finished cumming I watch him masturbate while I tell him about my fantasy. We both love it. I never thought I would do this with someone but he makes me feel so free and it's become just another part of our sex life.
I get uncomfortable when my cat oggles at me o.0 lol. It's like, dude, go be a cat somewhere else haha
I've done it a couple of times with my ex but I'd prefer a girl to walk in on me or watch me through an open window or door. Even better if I knew that she was watching but she didn't know I knew..........and then after I would walk out and pretend everything was normal and see what reaction she had.
yeh JamesDylannz, that would be awesome. Seem to be quite a few guys who try out that sort of things with hotel maids. Would be great to have that type of encounter but horrific if they really didn't like it... I thought this story was very exciting: http://www.truesexstories.org/showthread.php?p=4174
I fantasize about being watched. I open my blinds, throw back my blankets. I've done it for people but I get slightly stage-fright when I get to the big finish. sometimes it's hard to do. But I usually ask for a helping hand anyway. My boobies need attention and I only have 2 hands. Once they are involved I feel better about finishing.:2thumbsup:
It doesn't bother me who watches or catches me. I'm enjoying myself and if people want to see how that joy is obtained, fine, they can ogle. Mind you, I only wank off in my house or the backyard (which is a very, very small yard). I suspect the neighbours that have moved in are hip nudists to some degree — espied them having a screw in a hummock two days ago, she then got up and cracked a bullwhip — yikes! One to avoid!! LOL!
I hereby offer any part of my body in helping you finish When im in a certain mood i do like to show off a bit and tease the hell out of someone... but very rare that it wouldnt turn physical very early on. I kinda wish I knew more people with a bit more patience Id love to try having a session of ONLY showing off and no (or minimal) touching... like helping each other masturbate. Never got to do it tough.
I absolutely love being watched ant watching. I would do it much more often if I could but alas, it is getting harder and harder to find people. I prefer it to be random people on Skype etc, but am aware that a lot of people aren't into it so I tend not to ask that often!
It might lead to something if you're close enough. Besides, it's fun just to have cam partners, girls who will watch me, and I them.