I would like some opinions from guys who have been with the same woman before and after she had a child, or several. And/or from guys who have been with enough women to tell the difference, if there is any. Does it leave any permanent or long-lasting changes to her body, like loss of tightness, or less sensitive/pleasure for her? On the same note, what about a girl who is a virgin, does it really hurt her that much the first time? depends on the mood, if the guy is gentle, ...? ...oh and ladies, your point of view? =)
Well, my current wife just gave birth to our third child-(I'm a daddy again-yay!) After she had our first two kids, I can't honestly say that there was any difference in her tightness or sensitivity at all. The same with my ex-wife. Both my current and ex-wife were virgins when we first did it. It didn't really hurt either one of them the first time-of course I was gentle and careful :smoking: If I hadn't been, it might have hurt
I noticed no difference before vs. after and the wife had 2 kids. She was a virgin when we married and no, it didn't hurt. I think her hymen was probably broken from using tampons.
Thanks for the feedback =) about making love with a virgin girl, is it really that much different? if so, in what way(s)?
It can cause vaginal changes (such as by prolapse during a more traumatic delivery), but it is abnormal. It is more likely for changes to occur to the breasts, or for a woman to let herself go while pregnant "I'm eating for TWO now *gobbles down three deserts*"
compared to a girl that isn't getting regular sex, i'd say virgins aren't much tighter. The main difference with a having sex with a virgin is their emotional attachment to it and the man's need to be soft and smooth. other than that, they're just a little bit tighter.
The last girl I slept with was a virgin, she said it hurt and it was obvious to me by her facial expression that it did. She felt more tight at the beginning but not a HUGE contrast to later on. She said it felt like rubbing hard on a sore muscle and I had to adjust my rhythym, force and all that so it was a little weird for me, but after the first time she thoroughly enjoyed it.
Just curious, did you let her be on top of you at first? I've read many women feel more intense pleasure that way. + it lets you concentrate more to "connect" with her emotionally, comfort her (especially if it's her first time) and just overall make her feel more at ease.
She is living proof that motherhood is a good thing... She is sexy, hot, erotic, lustful... SHE is FINE!!! Her man is one lucky SOB...:devil:
:gorgeous: I think so, too... And you're right-motherhood is a beautiful thing! It can only make a girl more sexy, desirable and womanly!
Yes, my first time hurt and I bled a lot...for the first few times. I'm just really small...runs in my family. I always envied my friends who said it didn't hurt. sigh In the same regard, my husband always said I was very tight and whenever he penetrated me (he is average size) I always had the uncomfortable stretching time for the first minute. He would stay still, and I would adjust and then be good to go. Delivering vaginally did not change this. Having sex 9x a day vs 1x a day vs 1x a week didn't change it. Then, I hit my hormonal 30's and seriously, one day it just didn't hurt anymore. No more stretching time, and he can get in me deeper than before. That confuses me, but I'm happy either way.
