Penis or Dildo/Vibrator/Toy

Daralicious, his tongue could be used to stimulate your clit, but would not get very far into your pussy. His fingers may get a little further up your ****, but not as much as a penis would. Unless, he has long, large fingers. But a dildo would get as far as a cock would, if not further.
So, it makes sense, in my mind, to use a dildo. But it seems most women don't like or want to. Are you afraid it may hurt you ? Remember your man loves you and is trying to satisfy you, not harm you.

 

this is a topic which was dealt with recently on another thread

Most of the nerve endings in a vagina are in the first couple of inches. You're overrating the importance of the depth of penetration

also, "****" is probably not the word to use if you want to convey to a woman that you love her.

 

I'm sorry, sometimes I say ****, sometimes pussy. What's the difference ? I've never really understood what's what in a woman. Perhaps **** is the hole which the cock enters and pussy includes everything.

Now, I do recall a woman saying she prefers deeper penetration while others saying their lovers dick was too small to satisfy them. So, I'm assuming women need to be fucked by a decent sized cock. But I could be wrong, if women say that fingers will do the trick, then so be it.

 

"****" is the most offensive word for most women. It's basically the ugliest word for a vagina.

The big dick thing is mostly a psychological turn on for some women than a physical thing

 

I'm sorry, learn new things every day.

 

wow ok 1) never say "****" to a girl, even if your describing our lady bits.
2) IF YOU WANT TO REALLY PLEASE YOUR GIRL, PAY ATTENTION TO HER, ASK HER HOW HER DAY IS, KISS HER NECK FOR NO REASON, CALL HER WHEN YOUR OUT WITH THE GUYS, MAKE HER CUM ATLEAST 3 TIMES BEFORE YOU TRY TO GO IN HER. RUB HER BACK IN BED BEFORE SHE GOES TO SLEEP. YOUR FINGERS AND TOUNGE ARE GOOD ENOUGH. IF YOUR LOVE IS STRONG THIS IS ALL YOU NEED TO DO TO PLEASE YOUR GIRL. UNLESS THE ONLY REASON YOU WANT TO USE A DILDO ON HER IS TO SEE HER TAKE LARGE ITEMS UP HER PUSSY? WHICH HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH PLEASING HER AT ALL. oops soory for the caps, i didnt realize it was on.

 

OK daralicious, I shall only say pussy from now on. Thanks for your tips, I get the message. I was not saying that the guy should put the dildo up the girls pussy against her wishes, but only if she wants it because he could not fuck her. Perhaps only insert it in and out lightly, but only if she wants it. All the other items you mentioned are very valuable tips. Thank You,

 

what if he's not american and **** is not considered a dirty word in his culture? or what if he's dating one of those not-all-that-uncommon women who understand that **** is just a word and don't care if he uses it or not?

 

I think that people can use whatever words they want to. I'm not trying to police the OP. However, the word "****" is not likely to get a good reaction from most women. "****" is usually the curse word that men use for women when they want to say something worse than "bitch". When used to describe a vagina, it's usually used in a hostile and disrespectful context.

I appreciate that their are different cultures that have different standards. I understand that there are some women who wouldn't care what words are used.

But in what culture, pray tell, is "****" not considered a dirty word? What woman would be flattered by the word (e.g., "you look lovely in that dress tonight, you ****" "oh, thank you! tee-hee!")?

I have yet to encounter a woman who is charmed by or genuinely indifferent to the word.

 

as far as i can tell, it's practically a term of endearment in england.

i don't think i've met anyone who was "charmed" by the word, but i'm pretty sure plenty of women just don't care.

 

Then there's those who think it's the same as pussy.
The context I used it was in " His fingers may get a little further up your ****, but not as much as a penis would. " which was not meant to be derogatory to the woman.

In any event, I agree with I'minmyunderwear and daralicious who preferred to not have the word used.

 

ugh ..little boys, this is why i only date older men,.

 

no apologies necessary, as far as I'm concerned. I'm just letting you know that the c-word is generally unpopular with females.

 

Don't read it then.

 

i have no idea what cultural differences in language usage have to do with your apparent daddy issues...

 

(sorry, couldn't help it when I saw this image)

 

Your original post sounds like you are saying toys are better because they never fail. I say that removes a certain human element from the equation. That said, on occasion we will pull out the toys, even if someone hasn't had a performance problem.
There's a specific type of strap-on for what you are referring to:
http://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/strap-on-sex-toys/sp-hollow-strap-on-for-him-or-her-14461.aspx

There are also extensions for the penis that is just not long, thick or bumpy enough, but I don't think they work if the erection is lost:
http://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/penis-enhancers/sp-adonis-penis-extension-14661.aspx

Even with all of these fun things out there, I still get off easier with my boyfriend's bare cock than with anything else. The thought counts, but a substitute is still just a substitute.

I want him for my sex toy.

 

had to post this when I saw it. looks like bert is gone now though.

 

Huh, wow. Banned already. That was fast... Was he a stalker?