I've heard alot of arguments on both sides of this..so Ladies, does size really matter? If so what is too big, or too small? I'm about 2 inches flacis, but it almost doubled when erect.
we've had this discussion many times on this site. I'll rehash the issues, as it seems lots of people aren't getting the info and it seems to be a source of great anxiety. Some women are turned on by a large dick as a symbol of dominance Some women like to have their cervix jostled, which a long dick is more likely to do. Deep positions like forchete (face down doggie) allow an averaged-sized penis to jostle the cervix The vagina is a potential rather than an actual space, and it will conform to the size of the penis inserted into it. Also, the most sensitive parts of the vagina are in the first couple of inches. So while some women may have a preference for a large penis, on a practical level it doesn't make much difference. It's more of a psychological issue. Stamina, the hardness of the penis, technique, attraction, and the relationship are much more important factors. You're actually smaller than average, if you're under 4 inches. It's long enough for you to have intercourse though. As I mentioned, the other issues are more important The flacid penis size bears little relationship to the erect size. There's really no reason that flaccid size should be an issue. Anxiety and insecurity about your penis size is more likely to be a problem in bed for you than your size itself.
I'll contribute. I'm like 7.5 and thick. My woman cums the hardest when I only use about half of my penis and I can't go balls deep or fuck her hard in several positions, like the ones previously mentioned. So I could see how someone with an equally thick but only 4-5 inch dick could make her cum just as hard. That being said - sometimes she is really horny and opens up and I can pound her with all of it and that is the most intense sex we have - so I couldn't do that with a 4.5 incher. And yes I agree it's more dominant and women get off on that.
i wouldnt say so .. my boyfriend right now has a large one but when he gets carried away it can REALLY hurt if poked too hard another ex had a big dick and wasnt that much different having sex with him to not having sex at all .. one boyfriend was rather small but was great at sex and it never went in too far to hurt me. it hit the g spot more often
As long as it can get erect and cum, who cares how big it is. Nowoman has ever told me its toooooo big ro toooo small.
i have a 7.2 but i dont care about the size god created me like that, but i think women like it a bit big
My girlfriends opinion is that 8 or higher can be too big since it hurts. Mine is, it works. Good sex life. Who cares? As long as both people are having fun does it really matter at all?
YES it matters! But not always in the way guys think about it. Sometimes id could be bigger, sometimes smaller, longer, thicker, etc. etc. but sometimes it matters cuz its just perfect!! XD