I love to eat my wife. I love to get blow jobs but she wont give them. Now I don't require her to swallow or even have me cum in her mouth. I'm cool with cunning on her chest or something. My question is if your husband ate you any chance he got. And a bj didn't mean cum in your mouth, would you blow him every now and then. Perhaps a handjob while sucking his head. Maybe even just licking his head. Sent from my DROIDX using Tapatalk
Giving head for a woman is showing the man that you care and want him to feel good. What does she not like about it? Is your dick clean and smelling good? Sounds to me that she is a selfish person. Next time she wants it---turn her down. I would not even consider having sex without giving head--I give it any time and half the time we don't have sex, but he gets his head jobs everyday. It is one of the things that I do to tell him that I love him--it makes him feel good-and yes I swallow on a regular basis-it is just part of it. And I then get to say "I DID THAT!"
Whenever I have sex, somehow I always feel instinctively drawn to perform Oral Sex foreplay before moving on to penetration. So, is it a concious decision to increase the sexual enjoyment, or are we simply led, unknowingly, by our own base instincts, in exactly the same way that so many animals wll have a good sniff & a lick beforehand.
She doesn't like any of it. She has a tiny mouth so it hurts her jaw and she hates the taste. Ya I'm clean and smell fine. She doesn't ask for lady head I just do it cuz I love her pussy Sent from my DROIDX using Tapatalk
My dentist says that I have the smallest mouth he has ever seen and my root canal doc said the same thing. My guy has a big dick. We have been togather for 2 years and it took me 6 months to get used to him. Yes, it takes practice. I can now deep throat him-I practiced by putting my toothbrush further and further back. I worship him and therefore worship his dick. I just want to make him feel good and it is a thrill to hear him moan and groan. The taste of come ain't the greatest, but it only last for a few seconds, you swallow and it is gone. [ he doesn't come a lot, he has had a vasectomy]. I guess that I am not shelfish and want to make him feel great. It may make you feel a little better to know that my guy has never eaten my pussy. He said he used to love doing it to the women before me, and then he got false teeth anf now is afraid his teeth will fall out. Now I am on a mission to "tell him to take his teeth out and go for it". Gross, but when in the passion-anything goes. Personally-I really don't understand why men like to eat pussy-its wet and hairy and there is an oder and there is a hole in it. But, he is REALLY good with his hands. Hope this may help---I really do understand. Get some flavored stuff to put on it and she doesn't have to cram it all in her mouth, she can lick it like an all day sucker or suck on just the head. There are many things that can be done with a mouth and a tongue.
Yeah we have flavored stuff anwhen we were dating she used it during forplay but not anymore. She enjoys being cute and kissing the head after a shower or something. But otherwise she doesn't like it near her mouth Sent from my DROIDX using Tapatalk
We don't like oral on me (wife). However, I have been known to regularly blow him in exchange for foot rubs. If wants me to swallow, or gag, or whatever, it's all good. I like giving him oral. Lucky him, eh?
How can a guy identify a generous woman such as yourself? I only seem to meet women who think that giving me a BJ is on par with giving me a kidney.
Lots of women LOVE giving bjs, my only two relationships were/are with women who do it often, passionately, and because they want to.
I'll never understand girls who have a problem with BJs. It's only fair that a chick gives some head in return for getting eaten out. Hell, I give all sorts of BJs without expecting anything in return... Happy Birthday BJs, Thank You BJs, I'm Sorry BJs, I'm Tired and Have to Work at 3am and Don't Feel Like Getting Undressed BJs... I'd say me and my dude are about 70/30, BJ/eat out, and I'm fine with that. He eats me out every time we have sex, but a lot of times I will just blow him because I want him to be satisfied but I'm too tired or not in the mood to get into anything else. Chicks who don't give BJs make me embarrassed to be a woman...
I must choose women who are just too stuffy or something. I'm willing to do whatever to make my partner feel good. I figure the effort it takes me is nothing compared to the pleasure you can give them, and if you care about someone you like making them feel good. My last GF said she didn't mind the taste or anything but didn't like BJs because they're "degrading", wtf? When I massage her or eat her i don't feel degraded, sure you're serving the other persons needs, but unless they're smacking you and calling you names it's clearly about feeling good, not about dominance. Besides it's sweet to do something a little "undignified" to make someone you love feel good.
It's a tricky situation you're in. The thing is, there are two issues here. Blowjobs and pussy-eating are two different things and if you think of one as being "traded" for the other it sucks all of the fun out of it. If I was to think about it, I probably do lots more bjs on my hub than he eats my pussy but that's only because there are lots of easier situations for bjs than pussyeating and the thing is, we do both because we both enjoy doing both not because one is offset against the other.
Ok that's an interesting take on the conversation. Not really the question but thanks for participating. Sent from my DROIDX using Tapatalk
I think oral sex is more intimate than intercourse. How much more intimate can you be than using your mouth to share the sexual experience. and it's pretty much one sided where you are giving to the other person. I LOVE oral sex, both giving and receiving.
I agree. There is oral, always, and sometimes, just oral. It's no different than licking or kissing other parts of the body.
I have been with my wife for nearly 10 years. Married for 6yrs. Our sex life is very few and far between. It's my fault and I know it. After we were married for 2 yrs she had a nervous breakdown of sorts. Felt very badly about herself and had no interest in sex. Prior to we had a very good sex life with mutual orgasms every time. And routine blowjobs as part of our sex life. Now I'm lucky if she cums!( shld say she's lucky) but I love to make her cum. About a year after shutdown, I fell into the arms of another woman who was all about me wanted to fuck/suck me all the time. I would take my dick out in the car hard or not she wouldn't even say a word just come over and blow me to completion. Or fuck me or give me a handjob on the highway immediately. Not to mention she catered to my ego constantly. None of these reasons are even close to a sufficient reason to cheat but let me just say alcohol was involved a lot! Followed by a lot of drug use. Over the same time I had a few very emotional/ non sexual but very erotic relationships. Exchanging nude pics and sex talk back and forth with anyone who would respond. Some I knew already some just online. I know that due to wife shutting down and my business failing and crashing at the same time. Coupled with a pretty healthy drug habit took away my manhood. I mean I didn't feel like a man at all. Couldn't satisfy or even interest my wife nor could i provide. When along came a good looking older woman who knew exactly what to do and what she wanted. It was so easy to get swept in. Wow I digress. I love to lick pussy! So much I watch videos to perfect the ability to make squirt. But now that my wife and I have gotten well past me cheating ( yes she knows all found extra cell phone and emails, pics) and I've built that trust back we actually have good sex again. Still months apart. The last time we had sex was the first time she cam since I cheated. I ate her out for along time and we had sex for an hr 1/2 b4 either of us came. She knows how much bjs matter to me but can't/won't give them because she had mild tmj in jaw from a lot of drugs. Is there any suggestions to get her back to sucking or what would work to get bjs back Thx
all these statements put me at ease, for real. sometimes i be thinking im crazy for wanting a BJ, but now its so not the case. yall some MVPs