I am thinking of bottoming for the first time

Any advice for me? I am thinking of trying bottoming with my friend and have only recently gave oral for the first time and I loved it and still want to do oral but think I might want to try anal and am pretty sure it will hurt the first time and was wondering if there was any positions that would be good for my first time? Or something that would help with this like any lubes that are better? like what is the better lube vasaline ky?

 

its better to forget it . it may hurt u severly.

 

I assume you'll be using a condom in which case any water-based lubricant will do. DO NOT use oil-based lubricants --like vaseline-- with condoms, they will damage it. KY is good.

It does hurt right after the entry, but that pain will pretty soon abate and it will start feeling really really good after that. You just have to wait it out. Once he's in, just have him stay still in you until you get used to him and feel good to go on. For me, the pain usually abates after 4-5 seconds (it depends on how big he is too), but depending on an individual it could take longer. Use a lot of lube to make the entry go easier. You can also have him loosen you up with fingers first. I'd recommend the regular missionary position with him facing you, for the first time. But it's up to you, and what feels the most comfortable for you. Don't feel weird about letting him know what feels good to you.

Have fun!

 

My first time I laid on my side to be entered. Not sure why, but being fucked that way as not painful at all.

 

yeah that was my first time too, on my side - and he had a huge cock but your anus is not stretched when you're on your side and it is easier.

you can always get him to play with your prostate a bit first, first with one finger and then two and maybe three; by then you will be loosened up and with lube (Ky witrh condom or vaseline without) he'll slide in with hardly any pain. Feel great - go for it.

Simon

 

So how did it go? I am also looking to bottom for the first time. the guy I play with is just not sure he wants to

 

probably because of faeces, give yourself a douche first - following a dump. Lay on your side and relax and with lube he'll enter pretty easy. Nice feeling - I hadn't had a rear entry cock for a long time but let my boyfriend in recently and it was good; he's quite big too though not to thick.

Good luck,

Simon

 

Hurts to go in which causes people who have not done it to have a "Ow ok no I cant do it" moment. Play with fingers first, but also know its not the same because there is a certain length one must exceed in order for it to feel good, with me at the very least. Once its in all the way the muscles tend to relax, if your boy knows what he is doing then it shouldn't hurt. But if it does, try a few different positions to see what works best for you Be Safe.

 

well i cant get this guy to try anal. Very sad as I will have to find someone other to try this with

 

What is your friend like? How long have you known the person? Where did the two of you meet?

 

happr to report that I found a guy to put his cock in my ass. It was good and i think i will try again

 

I bottomed last night after trivia and it was great......