my boyfriend masturbating next to me

Well, that just sounds... delicious.

 

Thanks, Firefly. Nice to know you are au fait with my first language....Guttersnipe.

 

this thread just made me glad i am single
not that i would have a problem at with my man doing his thing next to me if i was too tired
but all this drama about who deserves what just made me thankful its not my drama

 

"hi, it's nice to meet you. do you douche by chance?"

 

As I recall, before the existence of all the more reliable modern techniques that we have nowadays, douching used to be most widely used as a form of contraception - and not a very effective one at that. Nowadays it is more often used as a treatment for such things as yeast infections, and for some, quite simply for pleasure.

 

Its a shame this thread went off topic...a bit...

Your partner wanking next to you when you are too tired for intercourse is a different aspect of a good sex life.

I wank nearly every day, alone, with my wife, watching my wife or looking at porn but a part I love is lying in bed wanking and being watched by my wife and if she is too tired, she'll caress my balls and rub around.

The occasional sleepless night will find me feeling her up and I get a thrill wanking while I play with her arse or other part thats nearby...while she sleeps. I've even crept around to theother side of the bed and knelt next to her, fingering her pussy while I wank and come on the floor.

I tell her about it in the morning and she tells me if she was awake or not, its all part of the thrill and the fun.

Let your man wank off next to you if you are tired, all you need to do is cup his balls, tell him he looks sexy playing with his cock, and watch how fast he comes...

 

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Cheers Glen.

 

I have nothing against that...
But I should hope it would be mutually consensual.

 

if it hadn't gone off topic, it would have been farther back in the topic list and you might not have found it to offer your wisdom...

 

I masturbate when my wife is not in the mood. I have done it in my recliner with her sitting next to me watching tv. Not often does this happen but I have done it before. She usually joins in or starts it off.

 

There is nothing wrong with that. I've done it countless times. The fact is, both partners aren't always "ready" for sex at the exact same times. There is nothing that can make you more comfortable with your partner that being able to comfortably "rub one out" while they are right next to you. My girlfriend and I understand that we have sexual urges, and they MUST be satisfied for a healthy mind, body, and relationship. However, sex can sometimes require too much effort at the wrong time, and it just may be easier to masturbate. My girlfriend allows me to, when she's the one not in the mood, to play with her ass and pussy while I masturbate. It's kind've funny though, as halfway through, she gets horny from me doing so. In my opinion, what you did wasn't wrong, unless he thought it was wrong. If that makes sense.

 

help him he will be less put out and you will not have to have sex if you don't want to. he will also be less likely to push the matter if you give him a little hand action. but no you shold be okay with him masturbating next to you. otherwise he will go into the bathroom and do it and lord knows what he will do in there

 

it's true. when i masturbate in the bathroom, everything starts out normal but pretty soon i start to think, i bet that toilet brush would feel good against my prostate...

 

Should I get out the antibiotic ointment and bandages again?

 

id say it is fine, maybe help him out a bit
sometimes you just dont wanna do it, happens to everyone

 

nah, i just left it in there to hold back the blood.

 

you should know that not all relationships even contain discussions of shoulds or deserves. I've never uttered those words in mine, we do what we please, if i want something and she doesn't want to give it, either i ask nicely and she changes her mind because she loves me, or i see she really isn't in the mood and i drop it because i love her. simple

you are a god with words :love:

 

:rofl:

Seriously, snoop, what are you referring to, specifically??

 

Maybe he's afraid that the dude will get a toothbrush stuck up his pee hole...or will get some odd toilet fetish...

 

I agree.