Okay so how many of you never make it thru foreplay, I mean you start out innocently with some kisses and oral favors and find yourselves CUM and spent about an hour or so later.....happen to you? happen often?
It hasn't happened to me and my bloke, but if the foreplay is long, and oral favors being done are being done well, I don't think it's that unusual. I'm just gonna assume this has happened to you. If you're worried that your chickie is sick of it or whatever, don't be worried. Things don't have to be over because you cum. Go down on her, finger her, pamper her sexually. However, if it's an ego thing, get over yourself and think about the girl. LOL Peace
There's no way I could last through hours of foreplay. I want the "real thing" after about 20 minutes or less. lol Plus, I'm not sure if this affects thing, but I have ADD, and my attention span is extremely short. Enduring hours of foreplay would almost be torturous to me. lol That's not to say that I don't enjoy foreplay, because I certainly do. It gets me ready and rearing to go, gets me fired up. Maybe I'm odd. I just like being "filled". That's a wonderful sensation. Peace...
swear to God, scout's honour, cross my heart hope to die. If I wasnt there I would be very skeptical too. It was first thing in the morning before work, my fiance somehow made it happen.
I spent most of the day reflecting..........after that the rest of the day was rather forgettable. It was much harder going to work after a multi hour marathon, which would just wipe me out. That morning was just like pop pop pop, and to be even more specific, it was more like 12 minutes. I didn't break a sweat and can take no credit for it. I honestly look at it as a mini miracle, corny as that sounds.
We are like mirrors, hard to describe but in a week we knew each other totally. We both got so much out of just pleasing the other, that was both our biggest turn on. She would wake me up some mornings by doing it. I'd be asleep on my back and wake up already in the act........this was only possible cuz I was living on a couple hours sleep a night at the time, still she would manage to get me hard before I woke up. That is my favorite alarm to wake to, by far. We have had a very life changing relationship, and both tried our best to avoid it, cuz we were sure the other wasn't interested, for a year and a half.
I love it when I have days like that. All you can think of is the time you had with your loved one and how wonderful it made you feel, both emotionally, spiritually, and physically. Awesome. Peace.
Foreplay is my favorite, I mean sex is all very rewarding and completes you urges, but foreplay is fun. I really like to tease during foreplay I love using my mouth anywhere and everywhere, I dont know what it is about oral sex but i love doing it... I like being on top and pinning back a guy and teasing and torturing till he begs me to stop and when I feel ready too....This doesn't ussualy go on that that long maybe like 20 minutes or so but still it's fun. I ussualy am the giver I like to please and tease (eh i dont like the sound of that thats annoying) lol
St. Francis of Assisi, "It is in giving that we receive." that ol horndog.... Foreplay is awesome, the anticipation, the build up, it can go on so long that I almost lose my mind with desire. in a manner of speaking, of course, ahem....
foreplay, I am talking about heavier foreplay gets me actually wanting some in 30 minutes now lighter foreplay (kisses and clothed play) can be done for hours, while watching tv, while talking, waiting in line at an amusement park, etc. And is probaly just as good as actual sex just in a different way
Nope, doesn't happen to me. I like a LOT of foreplay, for a LONG time. I can be very happy if we spend HOURS making out before we start doing anything sexual. And you know what? I'm blessed with the ability to get, and stay, hard for the entire time I'm fooling around with a girl. Usually by the time clothes come off, I've been hard for a few straight hours. One time, with a girlfriend I never did get to have sex with (weird story), we made out from about 2 in the morning until the sun came up around 8, and I was hard with her on top of me (with clothes on) the entire time. Of course, that's a good way to get a case of "blueballs," which is the painful achy condition (trust me, it can hurt really bad!) that you get in your groin after spending a long time with an erection. But it's worth it just to know how long you can stay hard. As far as orgasming too early and then being "spent," well, I don't have that problem either. If I come once, I generally stay hard as long as I have someone to continue to find arousing right there with me. Usually I can either keep right on going if I came, or the pause is very short, and I can go again very soon after, and again and again. As long as I am still psychologically turned on, my body's ready to do more. I love it! -Jeffrey
It hurts without enough forplay even if your well self-lubed so guys be nice to your girls and don't be lazy in bed
