Did you notice that it is now acceptable for female celebrities and others in the media to comment about penis size? You see the topic touched on during TV shows, movies, magazines and the electronic media all the time. Paris Hilton and Kim Kardasian ski-rocketed in popularity when they showed they enjoy a large man. They were quite unappologetic. Rhiana has made it know, in the media, she likes her men large. The newest TV/ internet sensation, Olivia Munn, is blunt about her preferences: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GsMF1FvOOjg Lily Allen even has a song about her distaste for those "Not Big". Sex in the City dedicated an entire episode to the topic. That is just the tip of the iceberg. OK.... my question: Is it that today's women are now more open with their true desires because it has become more acceptable to speak about it? or That more women today actually do like their man larger? or That toys have exposed women to the pleasures of a larger man? or That this is all BS and it is still true that size doesn't matter? I love some feedback!
People can like and say they like whatever the hell they want in terms of physical attraction. Why is it my business? I don't care if these women I've never met like big cocks. I like medium cocks. Some men like small tits. Some like big lips. Some women like small cocks. Some like black hair and some don't. Who the hell cares? Sounds like a load of overhyped teenagey bullcrap to me.
I have an above average cock and every woman I've ever slept with has commented on it and been excited about it. I've never heard a guy with a big dick say that any of the women he's been with would have preferred a small dick or that they didn't care... unless he was like 9"+ and it just hurt them - I did know a guy with a "huge" cock and he did have problems getting laid on account of it, but his dick was seriously like 10" long and thick. Point being - the only people who ever comment on how a 5" dick is just as good as a 8" dick are either women who are with guys with small dicks or the guy who has a small dick... never hear it come from dudes with big dicks...or from the blatantly honest women. That being said I do think there are some women who have smaller vagina's and a 7-8" cock is way too much for them - but seriously guys - they can pass a baby though there - you really think size doesn't matter to them? I thank god every day I don't have a small dick - I had a friend who did and it effected all of his relationships with women - tons of insecurity issues... just sucks...
Well, there's one right here. I consider myself to be only very slightly above average lengthwise, at about 6½" - 7" (depending on level of arousal). However, I have a matching girth - also 6½" - 7", and it is this that generally has the effect on women - not the length, as a woman's the most sensitive parts are positioned only about 3" - 4" inside the vagina, so it is the girth that provides most of the stimulation. It is this point where I have had problems in the past. Some women have commented on feeling that they have been maxed out, and while some find this extremely pleasing, I have been with one who had to quit half way though because she was so tight she simply couldn't accommodate it & almost passed out from the pain, regardless of how gently I took things. Needless to say, the same applies whenever I have Anal Sex with male or female partners. Furthermore, it can also be a problem finding suitably sized condoms. Even though I have tried the XXL Sized ones, they only ever seem to account for extra length - not girth. Whenever I put a condom on I find it impossible to roll it on in the prescribed manner - I have to use the 1st 2 fingers on each hand to stretch it open & pull it down accordingly. Yes, a generously sized penis can seem impressive, but can have its down side as well. Given the choice, although I'm perfectly satisfied with the length, I would prefer a little less girth.
That's why I won't let my wife turn on the lights when we make sweet sweet love. if she can't see my teenie weenie...
You are brave Pineman, I've never heard a guy say that he would make any sort of reduction in his cock size if he had the choice. Good for you - girth of 6.5/7 inches is big - don't think I'd want it anal - I'm sure it is not so easy with many guys! But I'm sure most girls would enjoy. I'm also about average - 6inchs but with about a 5inch girth. Just wish I hadn't been cut as a baby. Simon
As usual it's all about stereotypes and fake, empty headed celebs talking about outer looks. Who cares what they like or don't like. So yeah it's mainly BS. I can understand women prefer a larger dick more then a small one, basically the same why men usually like big boobs. There is more to play with.
It tends to be a common belief held by men that women, overall, prefer larger penises, but in my experience, this is not the case - and that doesn't just refer to the women that I've had sexual relations with either. Even women I've spoken to about the matter have all agreed that they are far more concerned with technique than what is otherwise essentially a case of sheer brute force. I guess it's a bit like the way that women tend to believe they make themselves look sexier by daubing themselves with make up, whereas most men will agree that they find women more atttractive without any make up at all. Men think they know what women want, but at the same time, women think they know what men want, and neither of them are necessarily correct.
Some women are turned on by a large dick as a symbol of dominance Some women like to have their cervix jostled, which a long dick is more likely to do. Deep positions like forchete (face down doggie) allow an averaged-sized penis to jostle the cervix The vagina is a potential rather than an actual space, and it will conform to the size of the penis inserted into it. Also, the most sensitive parts of the vagina are in the first couple of inches. So while some women may have a preference for a large penis, on a practical level it doesn't make much difference. It's more of a psychological issue. Stamina, the hardness of the penis, technique, attraction, and the relationship are much more important factors. Some women may be more vocal about their size preference, because they are encouraged by hearing the same in the media. Some may become more concerned with size because they take their cues from the media and think this is what they should want. The primary reason that penis size is getting more attention in the media is because they know that men tend to feel insecure about their penis size, and they are using it as a means to wage psychological warfare.
Thank you for your post. This was the type of feedback I was looking for when I started this thread. It was not a question as to whether "Size Matters". I understand it does to some and not to others. It was more a question as to why it now seems OK for females to overtly broadcast there size preference. It seems like it is now cool to say "I like them big." The problem is that now that it seems socially acceptable to laugh at and disparage the under-endowed. Girls are exposed to "bigger is better" at very young age. Those females who would not have known better in the past are now being programed by their idols to reject those with small packages. Some that in the past would have overlooked their partners decifiencies are now realizing that it is not cool or hip to be with a small guy. So where it may not mattered to her in the past... present day social and media pressures are making it matter. If you will watch the Oliva Munn video I came across on youtube (link above)... tell me that seeing that show on TV would not influence a young women. She (and her "sex expert friend" )actually suggests that small guys should try doing something else other than having sex. Maybe I am way off base. That is why I solicited your feedback.