Hi, I am a bit confused about myself so I want to hear your opinions.... This might be silly but really I am nearly 30 and haven't figure this out yet! I like guys. I have more guy friends then girls. My sexual partners were all guys. Not many but, anyway, I have been attracted to guys. The thing is I am also attracted to gay females. like short hair, boyish looks, clothes. and I too am like that. Short hair, jeans and t shirt since I was a kid. But I never had ANY experience with girls. nothing. and I can't imagine myself doing anything sexually with girls. maybe it's because I never had a chance. maybe. once close, but anyways. This attraction has been happening since I was a teenager, on and off. I am not in US, so this kind of thing is never discussed. but when I am in the US or Uk, I get that a lot - if I am straight or not. so I could be Bi then? what do you think? Thanks!
Hi Mik, we often become aware of our sexuality later on in life - I'm bi and have predominantly been with women but am attracted to guys; in my case more the feminine-type, whereas you are more attracted to the boyish type of girl. Why not just give it a try and see, nothing lost, nothing gained. You could maybe interest a bf to go with you to a swingers club and hook up with another couple of single girl maybe; there are different ways unles you actually know and are friendly with a gay/bi girl. On our local swingers club there are loads of women identifying as bi/bi-curious on their profiles. Are u in Europe? As you say the US and UK are more 'advanced' in open sexuality than many other countries. Good luck, Simon :sunny:
Well depending on your marital status, I would say why not find out who you are, instead of asking strangers Have any lesbian friends that are close enough to you that you could ask them a "favor" and can keep it your little secret if you are not comfortable having people know about your fling. Or grab a friend, queer or straight, and head to the local gay bar if you have one. If nothing else it could be a fun night at least.
I have to agree with Leviathan, go find out who you are depending on your marital status. At the same time even if you are married/in a relationship and you have talked to your husband/boyfriend about this and they are okay with this then I say go for it. Good luck!!
