The question for my problem is how to get over the ex full on? Right now I have a relationship with a wonderful girl, we have been together a couple of months, but I still worry if I am not over the girl before (Who I was together with over a year) It has caused me the problem of saying the ex's name in bad situations. I need to clear my head on this, because it is bothering me and I want to be as good as a boyfriend I can to my right-now girlfriend
Rarely, people truly get over their ex's. Most people just move on and try to block out the good memories and remember why they left that person. The best thing to do is distance yourself from things that remind you of her. Try to spend as much time as you can with your current girlfriend and just to do things that you and her both enjoy and keeps you focused on her.
It's a struggle sometimes and I completely hate myself for sometimes thinking of the x when with my girlfriend.
Join the military. Go into a battlezone...get hit. Your ex will seem like of no importance to you (if you survive).
Make a list of all the things you hated about your ex and all the things she did to piss you off that caused your relationship to end. People tend to remember the good times when it's over and forget the bad ones. To get over an ex, remember the bad and forget the good.
This has actually been known to help people move on. When you think of the bad reason that use to piss you off about her, you'll want to not think about her.
The thing is I am not sure if it was a good thing, that we ended. But the dice is cast, and I am not going back to that
