Randy Housewives?

Hi, I'm a builder and I get to work at a lot of peoples houses when often the housewife is home. It's pretty rare there's any chemistry but sometimes you kinda click with someone, but I usually stay professional. Then you get the overtly sexy woman who is really making it clear she wants some action, I never really know how to get it on with them! I'm married and getting very little at home, I fancy the idea of some action, so I'm wondering how to play it? Any advice, does a guy just kinda steam in or what? I've been out of the dating game too long lol! Hi BTW Richxxx from Yorkshire, England

 

the husband is in the closet. Not that that's a bad thing....

 

ugh, why do you have to cheat?

 

i would have to agree

 

Well i could tell u but if ur willin to cheat then u need to let ur wife know that ur not happy anymore. Fuck cheatin buddy

 

dump your wife and it will probably be easier.

 

That's the title of the forum section and so you guys that have hangs up about "cheating" need to hang back until you know the bigger picture.

I have an open relationship with my wife, if someone wants to fuck her she wants that too, that's her business. We want to stay together, but she isn't interested in having sex with me, she is unapproachable on that. We love each other and want to stay together, she hardly has any sexual urges and it is too harder work trying get past that.

So far I haven't cheated, but if someone wants to fuck me and I want them too, then I personally don't have a problem with that.

I don't want to be old and dying one day thinking about all the fun and excitement I've missed out on because of societies hangups!

And yeah I've been cheated on,it hurts like hell, it really smarts that someone could care so little for your feelings as to be so stupid as to let you find out!

 

I don't know your situation with your wife so i don't have any moral quells bout the cheating, however you def should not fuck on the job especially with clients. Also imagine making a move just to end up finding out you got the wrong idea, could have major consequences for your job. With that said, my best advice is just to flirt no harm no foul and read their body language....or just hit up a local bar :\

 

If u dont mind me askin...has she fucked someone else since youve been married?

U said she doesnt want it with u but u two want to stay together?..

 

She fucked someone a few times then confessed, it was no big deal. Falling in love would be a blow! I see sex separately to love.

 

Yeah good advice ! I was feeling horny yesterday and got thinking of what I might be missing out on, but some vintage porn took care of that! Beats the new stuff! Trouble with girls in bars is they aren't always discreet ...

 

you posted a thread saying basically "i'm not getting sex from my wife, should i fuck a client?" at no point in your post did you say "please don't reply, i'm not done giving information about my situation yet."

 

So I didn't put up my life story and circumstances in my first post, so a couple of people filled in the blanks, knowing nothing about me and get all judgemental, so I try and correct that and I still get my head chewed off!

I thought I'd found a forum where there might be people without hangups about sex and might help me with some of mine lol!

 

it's a big forum; you'll find all kinds of people on here.

all i was saying is that people will respond to what you post, and if you don't give thorough information then people will jump to conclusions about it.

also, no matter how much information you give, some people are going to disagree with you.

 

People would be much happier if they could make love to whoever they choose whenever they choose without social hang ups like jealousy. Our society is one that encourages repression of sexual urges and a sense of ownership that seems to prevail in most intimate relationships between people. It results in unhappiness and discontentment.

Live Free,
John

 

I agree completely, I wish more people would.

 

if people wanted your spam, they'd FUCKING GOOGLE IT!

 

More Spam than the Green Midget Cafe:
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Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA SPAM...... that mad my day...

 

People blame "society" for things too often. Like possessiveness is strictly a cultural thing - it's not. It comes from people being possessive by nature.

Just because the free love crowd doesn't get this concept isn't a valid enough reason to blame society for brainwashing all of us... you got it backwards.

If our culture was one that taught all kids when they were growing up that they should have open relationships and not be jealous there would still be a large percentage of possessive jealous people. It's in our nature. Sure culture/society definitely reinforce that mindset but they didn't create it.