So is he your boyfriend?

You sure do seem to make a lot of assumptions.

When she came out she did not announce it on the way out the door after a nice rump roast that was a Sunday dinner. We were both still living at home with my parents as we were both in university at the time.

Your assumptions must be based more upon your own life as they most certainly do not fit mine.

As far as parents being omniscient, it also did not come in the hand book that was issued with the birth of all children.

We dealt with it as a family. It went from being said and discussion to within a month her having her girlfriend over as a guest in our home. Mind you there was a fair amount of discussion but it was not hidden or just ignored, it was discussed.

I am rather proud to say that my sister is a productive professional with a wife and twin teens. She actually seem to be quite sane on top of it all.

My dad has passed away and unfortunately he never got to see any of our four kids. My mom is a mom and now a nanny (sometimes known as the toddler by the kids as she is short) who is involved with all the grandkids and even us heathen grown ups.

 

i go easy on the shampoo, but i need to use it, my hair is the wonderful combination of being greasy, and at the same time i have dandruff, so i use head and shoulders, but i only use shampoo 1 out of three showers because its not healthy to go overboard with it. and the reason i love conditioner so much is because when i wash my hair and dont use it my hair gets so frizzy, and i dont like the frizzy look on myself

 

I'm confused :/

 

then this is the perfect thread for you:]

 

i mean, why do people need an answer err a label to things. why put yourself in a box?!

 

eh?

 

This is off topic as fuck and probably going to offend someone but just wondering (based on the pic) how you can get away with THAT tight of jeans and a cock. I just don't understand. I recently started wearing skinny jeans (men's) cuz they seem to work well on me and my body type but it ussually ends up looking somewhat inappropriate.

This is random and pretty stupid but I am genuinely curious.

 

Idk, push it down, or even push it up.

Skinny jeans are different though, there's normal tight, than there's skinny jean's tight. I'm still wearing those same jeans and they really aren't that tight at all, I mean they don't attached to every area of my skin like skinny jeans do.

Also if you're going to wear skinny jeans you should probably just wear women's jeans, I mean that's what a good deal of people are going to think that's what they are anyways. Then they're just normal tight, and unlike men's jeans have stretch built into them which actually makes them comfortable.

Seriously tight dude jeans are like terribly uncomfortable.

 

I don't know how I could even shower without shampoo.
My hair is so thick and unruly that I can't even run my fingers through it in the shower unless I soap it up. The water here being really hard doesn't help either.

I guess I'd like to try though.

 

Just use conditioner instead.

 

Must be

Actually it would have been more about everyone elses behaviour that let them know what your sister was....and that everyone includes you

So none of it was hidden to you eh? So all the dumb jokes your dad had to put up with from his mates, work collegues, half of them (wrongly) thinking she ended up that way cos he had a fiddle or all the questions about what he did or didnt do when she was growing up....all this kind of stuff was discussed with you?

And your mum, all the bitchy questions from the other mums on how she was raised, all the judgemental looks, or knowing she's not going to be able to relate as well with her daughter, not be able to show off to the other mums the fine ass husband her daughter caught....or maybe even a little pissed off your sister was the grown up all along.

All these things are were discussed with you? Because your family is so perfect you can say whatever little truths pop into your head to each other? And you live in this magical place where everyone thinks the same way and tells you honestly what they think, and of course you believe them...after all, they said it out loud so it must be the truth.


Its all bullshit, when you dad found out he was going to have a daughter, one of the things that popped into his head is, "Great, when she's a teen, all her hot little teen friends are going to be hanging around" But no, by the time she got to about 6 he probably already worked it out, "Oh, great, when she's in her teens she gonna have a whole bunch of angry vegetarians hanging around". And it doesnt matter how much you are going to claim your dad was an upstanding guy (God rest his soul) no ones going to beleieve otherwise, cos they all think like that. The reasons he flipped, didnt have anything to do with your sister really...was all about him, not gonna relate to the son-in-law the same way as if he were a guy, no girlie hot teen friends, half the parents thinking he was a kiddie fiddler, the other half wondering what he did wrong.

Same thing with the OP, his mum, all that effort and sacrifice so 20 years later she can explain to everyone why her son has boobs.

Whats right or wrong, who loves who, whether we are born which way or whatever.........is all irrelevant when it comes to all the crazy kind of shit everyone else just assumes or the way they think, and you cant pretend what everyone else thinks doesnt matter, we are all dependant on that each day of our lives

 

ok maybe im just weird, but if i had a daughter and she came out as a lesbian, id be relieved, cuz i know ill likely be one of those over=protective fathers that would hate her boyfriends, their raging hormones and their raging hard-ons. i think it would be less of a big deal if she was a lesbian. and who gives a flying fuck what my work mates think? they should worry about their own slut daughters out there sucking off the whole football team

 

Haven't Laughed So Hard In Ages............:2thumbsup:



Cheers Glen.

 

On an individual case, doesnt matter, but over and over, year after year, no matter what stupid thing its for, it gives you the shits.

Whether its about your kids, or your car, or your haircut ...it ends up grrrr....I'm surprised more of us dont end up going postal

 

Sadly there appears to be far more judgement coming from you than was experienced.

I have a gut feeling from your posts that someone did a number on you and for that I am sorry.

 

I was listing all the stuff both your parents and sister would have kept from you, protected you from...thus stuff you wouldnt have experienced.


One thing I am sure on though, is that both your parents would have known when she was little. Think about your kids when they were little, how they related to each other, probably closer to...I was about to say normal...but lets go with the 'majority' and anything out of the ordinary would have stuck out. Mothers ALWAYS know

 

Um, your mom isn't being stupid.

It's pretty fair to associate the demasculization of a man with homosexuality. Not like she's way off base. I mean, you are experimenting with your sexuality. So you might as well fess up, be a big boy and explain it all to her.

 

Nah most gay men are pretty manly in physical characteristics since looking womanly doesn't help attract other people who attracted to men.

 

Don't take this the wrong way, but I found your response of 'Please girl, he's not my type' to your mother to be a be a bit of a red flag. Or rainbow flag as it were.

Just kidding though. There are photos on my facebook of me leading a gay rights march through downtown Ft. Worth. :biggrin:

 

You're projecting your own feelings and insecurities onto Heat and her family. That's a really shitty thing to do.

But since you brought up "Mothers always know" and parent-child relationships, where are you getting your argument from? Is this something you've noticed in your own children?.......