The Islamic Transvestite is always is a great conversation stater at family gatherings.. but I dont go, cause I dont want to blow anyone up..
no doubt it's gonna be a difficult conversation to have, but do you really think the better alternative is transforming into a female without mentioning it?
thats true, sorry i didnt get my thought out totally coherently, im sick and nyquilled up. what i mean is more that it shouldnt be that way, society wise. it should be totally acceptable to be whoever you are, and i think its a travesty that anyone is made uncomfortable for who they are, and being offended is a personal problem. ie- if you feel offended, why? what bothers you about whatever it is? is it a valid reason to be offended? im sorry if i came off badly, like i said i havent been thinking in an orderly fashion
^^^^ Yea, you might as well air this while in the process, instead of after the fact.... If i may ask a stoned question, you feel more like a wonem than a man, but you still like women, so you feel like a lesbian in a male body and want to go back to/alter to a female figure?, ... I really don't mean to offend, it may but i just don't see how and i am truly sorry if it does.
Well eventually she'd have to notice enough to bring it up. It's like if I was in fact just gay, sure you can hide it for a long time but eventually you're just gonna get caught with a dick in your hand.
i guess i would rather say "mom, i like touching dicks" instead of getting caught by my mom, dick in hand
I'mma sum up with: and Gender =/= sexuality I think that's what you were trying to ask, I'm not sure though.
YES... that is what i was saying. I sometimes can't put my thoughts into word well enough for others to understand without further clarification... *edit* I will apologize first again, i really don't want to offend anyone... Why do you feel the need to be a women, do you not enjoy getting your dick sucked? would it be better for you if it was your clit being sucked... that sounds fucked up to me but i hope you understand what i am saying.
My first thought when I read Syd's post and saw the pic was "So what, I appreciate and respect Syd based on the content of his words rather than the look of his clothes", same for orison and everyone else here. That is one of the things that I have discovered has been an eye-opener for me personally, actually considering and evaluating people based on the content and intentions of their communications rather than their appearance. I will admit that since coming to HF my attitudes have shifted and I'm not so quick to impose judgments based on superficial things such as appearance or sexual preference. Can't say I was always like that. Intellectually I always realized such things, but dealing with you nutbags without the benefit of seeing you face to face and only based on the content of your ideas as reflected in the posts has really caused me to re-examine my attitudes and judgments, even those that I wasn't really aware I was making. Damn, did I just experience a moment of personal revelation and growth? Wow, didn't see that one coming So I guess I owe all of you a thank you for helping this old fart to grow a little. Thanks all you degenerate, drug addled psychos. Luv ya all! :love:
My dicks feels awesome when it gets sucked. It's not about sex. Well sex is a part of it but that's by nature of sex being a large part of human life period. It's about feeling inherently female. I don't feel male, I never have, I don't like being male, I don't like having male physical characteristics, I don't like having testosterone flowing around in my body/brain, I don't like being seen as male by other people, ect.
on the girls clothes subject.im not gay.but sometimes wish it were acceptable to wear womans clothes.some stuff looks very comfy,and some are comfy and fit better.my ex liked it if i wore womans undies.and i gotta admit they were a hell of alot more comfy than tighty whiteys,so now i look for mens undies that somewhat resemble womens in case someone happens to notice.womens sneakers are way more comfortable and fit me better than mens,can get away with the sneakers with the right colors.my ex had me dress as a hooker for halloween and she was the pimp,people thought it was better than if it was the other way around.and the heels were amazingly comfortable to wear and walk in for 5 hours :rockon:
I could not be more of a stereotypical man, and believe me i understand, i feel very effeminate at times. You seem to me to be very bright and well educated, no matter what your sexuality or gender preference.
^^^i know it was you soul vibrations, but was it madcapsyd that you were agreeing with in another thread about feeling female?
Women's clothes, at least casual clothes, are in fact generally more comfortable just because they're lighter and made of softer material. Even jeans. Actually jeans probably by the most.
Could have been, honestly madcap might be able to answer that better than me, i also have stereotypical stoner memory and as soon as i hit the "Submit Reply" button i will search my posts then edit this post with the answer... lol...
Im currently wearing hanes pantie sport, solid color, girls socks cause they are tighter and fit better,:2thumbsup: blue stretchy pant over a dark green pair, also female clothing.. my shirt is male..
When i had in fact said before i often feel effeminate.. Was it in responsive to one of your post/threads... i did search my postings back to the 14th of this month, i found nothing... maybe it was before then, but doesn't seem to make chronological sense,