Hey I have a problem and I didn't THINK it would be a problem i masturbate very differently from most other guys I believe. What i do is lie on a hard surface with my dick and press against. The thing is i was a virign and when i had sex I could not stay hard, So I tried to Jack Off but that didn't really work and i didn't cum either. I thought that maybe if i changed my masturbation tactics it would help with my sex life. Now I've tried to masturbate by jacking off and I can't. I feel little pleasure and I really don't know how to do it or how long to do it for. So can anyone tell me how actually jack off, what to use to feel pleasurable and how long it should take? I feel bad cause I wasn't able to have sex with this girl how we both wanted to so can someone help?
dude...video of what you want to know is all over the internet...i am unclear how reading it could help better than seeing it...to be blunt..some guys can churn one out in 45 seconds with a good steady rapid pace..like a machine gun...some guys[not me]like to lie there and make it last for an hour or more by stroking really slow...my advice is to just dont give up..it will happen...most of whacking off is in your head...not in your pants to my hip forum friends..sure..leave it to me to answer this guys query...are you fucking people insane...i can not be trusted...last warning lol
Lol thanks yea i hadn't been able to find any videos just people giving advice about it on their little shows and some tips on how to spice it up and do it differently. I thought i might have an actual problem since it's been different for me so thats why i came to get opinons :2thumbsup:
what i do is take a coat hanger and straighten out the curved part, then i insert it into my urethra. makes me cum so hard.
It's nothing to do with masturbation technique. It's not unusual for men to lose their erections when losing their virginity, simply due to nervous pressure. Just let it happen, rather than feeling duty bound to perform, and when it does happen, don't try to mimic the rapid action of masturbation as this can cause discomfort to the woman & make the whole experience much shorter for you. Make each stroke as slow as you possibly can. While you may think, at first, that you'll never be able to get anywhere this way, it actually heightens your sensitivity, making it far more pleasureable for both you and your partner.
I think I'm good on the toys. Thanks Pine Man, so what you're saying is to actually have slow sex instead of trying to masturbate. I'm trying to make sure that this doesn't happen again next time that I have sex.
To be precise, instead of trying to mimic the action of masturbation. I speak here from experience, because I made exactly the same mistake when I lost my own virginity. As soon as I penetrated, the logic that ran through my mind was that masturbation but merely mimicing a sex with a real vagina, therefore it followed that real sex should require the same sort of movement as masturbation, but after a matter of seconds of hammering away I soon found out this was not the case from my partner's screams to take it easy, at which point I immediately slowed right down, holding each thrust at full penetration as long as possible before drawing back, not really believing this sort of pace would get me anywhewre - but needless to say, I couldn't have been more wrong. The long slow strokes stimulated my penis in a way that I could never manage manually - to say nothing of how they were affecting my partner. The first tip is not to take it at the same rapid stroke as masturbation. The second tip - and probably just as important, if not moreso, to take your lead from your partner.
lol no i meant i couldn't find instructional videos, if porn has videos like that then i did not know
