Pregnant dating?

I say she should go to the awkward looser kid who she never looked twice at in high school.

 

That would be my thought too. It would be a lot for a guy to take on.

Some guys find it hard enough to be with someone who already has a child. Having to go through the birth and baby stage of someone else's baby may be a little too much. But, then there are probably some out there who would do it.

 

I think it would be hard to find someone who will accept everything you have to offer, but hard doesn't mean impossible. If you wanna find someone, go to the places you would want to meet a guy. If there an art sluppy store, could you work there a little? Maybe wear a shirt that says single momma or something that hints that? If you have any friends that know someone and have known you they might be a possiblitity.

Everyone keeps saying worry about your kid and life, but your happiness matters too and if you wanna find someone, you gotta look a little harder than when you were not pregnant.

 

believe it or not, there are guys tht wld date a preggo. I wld...no prev here, jus sayn.....:love:

 

do you have any idea how hard it is for single women who are NOT pregnant to find a decent guy? Thats gotta make it damn near impossible for pregnant women.

 

Say, hypothetically if I were in your shoes, I think I would try to focus on my independence, and just learning and growing as a person. (and your baby, of course) You are still young, and there will be plenty of time for dating. I can only imagine that its going to be kind of hard to put yourself out there being pregnant and all.

But on the other side...

My brother dated a woman that was already 3 months pregnant when they met. They've been together for nearly 6 years now, are happily married, and just had another baby. However, they met on a dating site..

I do understand your yearning for companionship at this time, it is only human nature.

Also, I hate to see babies growing up in janky homes, (no father figure, divorce, etc.) but I suppose I need to get used to it, considering its a norm these days. Its a double-edged sword. It certainly can be for better or for worse..

 

Thats a very good point......:afro:

 

HA! Say, what planet did you say you were from again? Clearly not Earth!

Dearie, women have it made! You women have men beating a path to your doors. You literally have the pick of the litter.

Men, much different story. I havn't had a date since 2004. I can't find any decent women, and when I do they're either gay or married (same problem the married men tend to have as well).

 

finding a decent guy couldn't be easier. it's choosing to date him instead of getting knocked up by deadbeat bob that seems to give women problems.

 

Dead on.

 

Dislike.

 

you will quickly discover that there are many men who are attracted to pregnant women
just be sure that isn't the ONLY reason he is attracted to you
i went through this a couple years ago
i know exactly how you're feeling

 

This is very true indeed.

 

That's good advice. Trying get a man, perhaps just so one doesn't have to raise their baby on their own, creates a sense of unloading responsibility that doesn't seem like it would come in all that handy while raising a child.

 

Very good advice but that is not necessarily the reason she want to date. It's difficult being pregnant and single. She may just be interested in finding companionship and affection which is natural and completely acceptable. Being pregnant doesn't stop you from being a woman and having needs and desires. If anything it enhances those things.

 

lol please. every guy I know is either taken, gay, or a dickface

 

hahahahahahahaha!, dickface!

 

Well..... I see you don't know me.... :2thumbsup:

 

I'm none of those things sweety.I sent you something in your mail box.How've you been?

 

clearly, she forgot "creepy."