hey i know that this is my first time posting but i just figured i'd make up some name and tell it straight so you guys can tell me whats up.. basically, i have a problem with cumming too fast. i hate it. it eats at me and makes me worry when we do have sex. i worry about cumming to fast and then i end up cumming. its not fun, and i hate that i always end up pleasuring my woman by eating her out because i cant make her cum since my horn blows wayyyyy too fast i was wondering if you guys had any tips or advice it really sucks being afraid to be in a relationship because of your sexual performance or lack thereof. thanks
theres a technique called edging. practice that. and if you think about cumming to fast, your going to. its all in your mind
There are some benzocaine based creams at the pharmacy that work pretty. If push comes to shove - ssri's work well - those are like prozac, pazil and so on. I had to switch from paxil it slowed me down so much.
Try jacking off then stopping right before the cum, don't let yourself ejaculate. Do this a few times or whatever and you should see improved performance. Just keep doing this until you feel like the timing is just right. No guarantees this will work but I have done this so much it takes me like 3 hours of sex to cum now (last time I had sex anyways), it's a little ridiculous lol but that's how I roll.
Check out my thread on "Premature ejaculation" in the "Sexual health" forum. Almost 18,000 guys have looked at it and a lot have said it helped them. Let me know if it does.
