I am so confused i don't know what to do. It's a long story so i'll make it short. I am in a relationship with a guy and there is this other guy that likes me and wants me to be with him and then there is a girl whom I am crazy about and yes my bf knows about her but the thing is she doesn't know and she is completely straight so i don't know why I even bother with her when I know I don't have a chance. But anyway this other guy is crazy about me and I do like him but just as a friend and he doesn't want anything to do with me anymore cause I am with someone else and I haven't told my bf about the other guy and now I am lost on what to do. My heart tells me one thing and my head another I am just so lost. so my question is what should I do? any help would be grateful.
well............does the girl like your bf? If so maybe suggest a 3-sum with you, her and yr bf. In the process maybe you two girls can get more familiar. As to the other guy - well if you only like him as a friend then maybe you should tell him so. Follow your heart........ Good luck, Simon
Why are you with your boyfriend if you seem to like this girl better? What the hell is even the problem with the other guy? Why should I give you advice, when your request for advice seems so self-centered?
How far do you think into the future. could you imagine being with them for ever? Kids? it's really all about that ^
She doesn't really like my bf so idk if a 3some would work but ill talk to them about it it's a good idea tho. I have the other guy so and that's why he doesn't want anything to do with me but whatever it's his lose i guess. Thank you
I am with my boyfriend because the girl is straight. There is nothing wrong with the other guy I just don't like him as an thing other then a friend and he can't accept that. Well you don't have to and why answer if you think that my request for advice seems self-centered?
I think it will go far at i hope it will but one can never really know for sure and forever is a long time but i think i could and as for kids they aren't really my thing unless they are other peoples kids. Thank you
Does your boyfriend know this? I meant, why is he causing confusion. It seems sorta unrelated to the bulk of this post. Because you didn't seem to realize you are selfish.
I am not only with him because i can't be with her. I wouldn't use him or anyone else like that. that is not how i am.
You're basically lying to your BF, leave him now before he gets hurt. As a guy I would be crushed if I found out about this. So just save him the heartache. The other guy can basically quit dreaming because it's not gonna happen. And you should basically just do what "the other guy" has to do because it's the same situation basically. ......Basically. If you can't see that none of this isn't gonna work you might as well just invite everyone to a hardcore gangbang.
