Hi Peoples, I am having a big problem,, i have never done sex before,, just a week back i gone with my friend to the place where u can fuck girls for some amount,, so my friend forced me to do that,, i was also exiting that time to see what it is and when the time came the girl fastly putted her clothes all down and standed nude saying "do fast" "do fast" i get shocked and that my time penis did not get hard to do anything,, i tried a lot but it dosend standed up at last it was a bad time, after that i am always think and become tense that why it does not get hard and what will happen if i go next time or with any other girl,, so people tell me what u say for this ,,, what will be the reason?? P.S. i do daily one or more time hand excercise with my penis with no problems!!
umm.... sounds like you get scared by the prostitutes.... seriously, i do not condone visiting brothels... you can have sex some other way in my opinion, but whatever... as far as not being able to get an erection. it was probably stage fright, if she's yelling at you to "do fast" then you're likely to have some performance anxiety. and of course it's worse now... my suggestion would be to have sex with someone you actually care about, and who you're comfortable with. The nervousness shouldn't be as bad and hopefully the whole experience will be a billion times more enjoyable.
Thx for the advice,, another problem,, if i want to do sex i have only this way "pay and get" no other way ,,, other way only possible is after marry (((((
so..... when are you planning on getting married? I mean, is it really that hard to wait? why do you have to wait? is it because no women will do it with you, or because there are moral standards that need to be held up? If the woman you're going to marry eventually is a virgin, and has saved herself for her husband how are you going to feel about having sex with prostitutes?... or is that not an issue? I'm not sure I really understand... to me, it is more shameful to pay for sex or be paid for sex than to have it with somebody "for free" even though they both are consentual. have you thought about diseases? (i'm not sure, do brothels have their women tested?) those "hand excercises with your penis" should be helping to sate your desires, but maybe they're just making you more horny all the time. why do you want to have sex so bad anyway?
i will refrain from saying anything But why does the only sex you can have is with a prositute and not someone you care about?
first, I love your name man, secondly you obviously are from a diferent culture, could you explain to us where are you from and how are the morals in your country? thanx SmartBoy.
Thankyou people for the support,, i found good answers from all of you,, it will help me ) P.S. i am from India and here i dont have friends to make love with them so it was the problem for me to only can go to prostitutes.
make friends most prostitutes from what iv heard dont even enjoy wat there doing and alot are forced especially in brothels, ya know like romanian and russian chicks who get promised a better life in a different country but then are quickly forced to work in a brothel . personally i think its sick and wud never see a prostitute
OMG, don't go to prostitutes! Geez! Wait until you find someone you actually dig! It will be well worth the wait! Peace, good luck, and think more of yourself!
The prostitute is supposed to be providing a service, not rushing you through it and making you nervous and being unfriendly and impatient about it. She didn't do her job right. It's not your fault that you could not get aroused under such circumstances. -Jeffrey
